In no particular order... Physically, I'm a butt man. Aside from that, someone who likes to be touched. My primary love language is physical touch. Intelligence is huge. A sense of humor is a must. It should be pretty apparent by now that I don't take much (including myself) seriously.
When they "get" me. When we have similar enthusiasms , and share basic philosophies. When there's that invisible magnet between, that makes us want to touch.
Sometimes it's just undefinable - but you know "it's" there , and you automatically want more of whatever that is !
Intelligence, humor, tolerance, kindness, either employed or retired, good personal hygiene, informed of current affairs, likes to read,
They can make you laugh and you can do the same for them.. you get each other's sick twisted sense of humor is always a plus. Another is smelling good.. nothing is more sexier than a nice smelling guy.. but not like he just stepped out of a brothel kindof smell.. just sayin. Secure financially and knows how to play well with his toys is always an added plus.
Hmmm... I'm already married so I'm going to pass.
@hankster. Smart , pretty , self sufficient , knows her job , not shy , stands out in a crowd. I got her brother...