Just informed the admins of a scammer named "Melody Huff",slim,athletic,muscular, silver haired,we conversed a lot,supposedly she is in Africa helping at an Orphanage with water problems. No money was sent, or promise made just beware,the scammers are here too......

Let's say you enrolled or(hoping not) you paid membership for a month,suddenly,your inbox is stuffed with undying love from Women Gawd knows where,asking for gift cards,pay their cell phone charges,presents for their mother,car repairs,computer or cell phone upgrades,and the list goes on....

I met a young Woman (35 I think),unmarried no kids, through a dating site,she was from South Africa,we struck up a friendship,it progressed, got more intense, made plans to bring her here, as my late wife's insurance was paying out,but something just was not right(she called me twice at no cheap expense),so I back traced her address and ISP,and used Google Earth to explore her city,and the smell of overipe fish filled the air. Nope,told her my suspicions,of course by now her daddy was a gold miner, and when she married, the vast amount of money would be her's and her husbands. So beware,the scam as this one may be long running with variations.......

I will not name names,but there was a Woman here who got real interested in my credit ratings and credit card balances,so suspicious me backed away from entanglement with her.

Thanks for all the thoughts and tips. I sometimes feel like I want CTO have a relationship so bad that I would jump through hoops but I know better. I just want to be a couple. Maybe it was not to be for me. I'm not alone after finding lots of single friends here. You all are won

All dating sites,are infested with scammers,some very elaborate scams are always in play,being lonely is big business.Check the number of websites,they grow almost daily.

Be cause they can.

It has nothing to do with how they think about you. You are a means to an end.. usually it’s $. Fortunately I’ve seen a lot less on here.

Why does anyone do dishonest or hurtful things to others? There's nothing special about this site. It has people on it. People do shitty things.

Even scammers single me out... (WTH * WTF)^2 !!!

I have had several males post to me that are religious and not wanting to examine our way of thinking and trying to be "romantic", which is not funny to me. I have no proof of where they come from. But the site does advertise free dating on Facebook. So new people may be attracted, but weirdos may be attracted too. I report them. This is a place of sanctuary for me. I do not like to be trolled by Christain men here.

This site isn't so bad that way. Newbies have to thei5r posts approved, which makes it harders for scammrs and haters to get a foot hold.

$$$$$$$$$...it works, they keep doing it.

Flag any suspicious posts or comments to the admin., then go to their profiles and block them. You can flag them on their profiles as well.

That is just about any social site. They are generally obvious within a couple sentences.

I’m not sure what they think but I think the stupid tag is on them.

Some people are greedy and without empathy. They are bad news, because they are like ghosts; they have no conscience.

they don't think about you at all. to people like that,women aren't people. they're just objects to be scammed.

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It probably has something to do with them widening their horizons. They do not care where they get their money from.