Who else will ignore Valentine's day?
I will tell all those close to me that I love them. But I do that often anyway. It happens to land on ash wednesday this year so there will be no rehearsal (I don't care, but the director is also a church musician, so he'll be busy). I will probably spend the evening reading. What, will you do?
I always have! It was some FF-ing capitalist that probably owned a chocolate company that bribed a politician to make Valentine's Day a official holiday. Your dammed if you do and most certainly dammed if you don't. I'd rather show love when I'm in the mood, and not because the calendar says I should!
I completely agree.
I had to look up what ash Wednesday is... Rehearsal for what?
I definitely won't go out to dinner as everywhere will be packed. I'll hang with my dog and maybe my BFF or...
My group that performs soon in a concert for a Handel Festival happens to rehearse on Wednesdays.
As I am in retail, I am pretty cynical about what I call VD ayyyy
My duties are inventory control/ pricing integrity related so I will be tasked with handling the markdowns. I will get the grandkids their favorite candy and they are fine with it because they understand that they get twice as much by waiting a day.
My last 3 relationships which ranged over a 20+ year period were also in retail so even though we made token attempts, we were both of the same mindset
I am one of those people that think if you have to be forced to show appreciation on a holiday, then your relationship has issues
I think I’ll go grocery shopping, lines should be low. I thought about getting some people having a hard time with Valentine’s Day some chocolate, so I may still act sporadically, not sure how I’ll feel later.
No they won't. You'd be surprised how many people are buying roses, beer and wine at the last minute. But I like your idea. There are a couple of people I work with that are single and sad about it. I may leave something in their work areas anonymously.
People think I am an asshole and I like it that way
@SherryMartin I spent my time shoveling snow, an hour and 45 minuets, and the roads are nasty.
I do Valentine themed stories and crafts for the kids at school (I'm a school librarian) but I do nothing for myself or anyone else. It's just another day.
But now that you mention it, do you (or anyone else here) do Valentine-y things (like give cards or flowers) for people you love but not in a romantic way? In other words, do you consider Valentine's day to be strictly for romantic love or just for love in general? I always thought it was weird to give Valentines to parents or children, but I think most people don't find it weird at all.
Valentine's day is a Hallmark holiday. I only celebrate if I am going out with someone who cares about it. In my experience, after elementary school, it is for romantic love.
Love in general.
I plan on doing nothing out of the ordinary for the day.
It is a rather auspicious occasion down under, 52 years since we switched from sterling to decimal currency, other than that tis a great big zero in my books.
You don't know how lucky you are. The US is still all imperial, except the dollar. Hate it. Still use Metric and Celsius, although I am forced to use imperial anyway. It's even hard to find a ruler with inches as well as centimeters. Hard but possible.
Valentine is a made up holiday. Read my post about it.
I got a bottle of Jameson's and World of Tanks to get me by. That and Motorhead.
@Dispirited I got a handful of tier VI cruisers and BBs if you're interested in convoying.