I’m attracted to whom I am attracted to. I don’t consider myself bisexual, just sexual. But if I thought someone was one gender, and I found out they were not, as with any surprise, I’d be surprised.

I can find men attractive but not sexually attractive Bradley Cooper attractive but wouldn't sleep with him . Confused at first then proud of myself for being so mature about it

E- beautiful people are just that. I'm comfortable enough in my sexuality to say that I think another man is attractive.

I'm attracted to a lot of people that I would not contemplate having sex with. The sex of the person isn't the problem though, it's the age. I have a HUGE issue with having sex with someone that is younger than my oldest son.

Why do some people find it so difficult to separate "Finds attractive" from "Wants to have sex with?" I find lots of women attractive, but know what's in their underwear precludes any sexual interest on my part.

There are plenty of reasons why you might not want to have sex with someone you find attractive. Genital incompatibility is only one of them. So why make such a big deal out of it?

Definitely D..yes D...of course D!

I guess E, although I wouldn't say so much neutral (which would suggest no reaction either way) so much as interested - I find both/all genders attractive because it is based largely on the person themself (although physical traits do attract me as well, ultimately it's about who that person is) so if I find a person attractive, and I think that person is male, and I find out later that person is female, I would react (therefore not really 'neutral' but my reaction would be neither negative nor positive, just one of interest as in "Oh, that's something I didn't realize about that person before"

Well I'm a woman, with a GF.... So excited.

A&E. I'm intrigued by androgynous females. I like the look. But my sexy days are over, so it's all academic for me at this point.

E

F Embarrassed, a dancer with an international all male revue, low cut see through top, long legs, blonde called Christopher.

Intrigued - definitely.

E. Maybe a little disappointed. lol

E

Does that happen a lot?

What about F - disappointed

A I guess

E. My favorite movie is Priscilla, Queen of the Desert. It takes place in Australia and follows the fortunes and misfortunes of a travelling transvestite show.

I think women are more attractive than men, unless the men are "pretty."

What is confussed?

I would think that in most cases you would be able to tell from the picture.

F - giggle!

I know women are hot. I just do not want to be in a relationship with one I've met to date.

Hmmm... none of the above. Say I see someone that moves in a way that looks like a woman walking, they have a nice body from behind and that animal part of my brain says, oh, hey! And then they turn around and they're a guy... my reaction is, 'dang, that's a dude. no interest there.' and that's pretty much the end of it for me. I don't have any internal conflict or doubt of my sexuality. I'm simply not interested in men and won't ever be. No reason to get worked up for thinking someone is attractive... you're allowed to think someone is physically attractive without feeling the need to fuck them or question your sexuality. Just my tuppence.

Another phrasing might be "Have you ever been sexually attracted to someone to find out they aren't the sex you are usually attracted to?".
Granted there is still room for error in this..... because Bi-sexuals etc....

I posed the question because it is becoming more often that I am not always immediately sure whether someone is male or female. I've said more than once "She's very pretty" and had it pointed out that it wasn't a she. And there have been times I thought it was a he that turned out to be a she.
It seems more common for people to find the grey area in their sexuality that their presented orientation is not always clear cut.
And I suppose I didn't need to specify "picture".