Personally, I could use more spontaneity. I enjoy planning. I try to be strategic in what I do. But, sometimes it's nice to just go with the flow. I'm practicing.
Where do you fit on the spectrum of calculating to spontaneous?
depends on what you wanna celebrate. big holidays we plan for but other stuff is spur of the moment.
If I do make a plan, it's normaly just a rough plan, that I can change along the way, if need be.
I am not a planner, but can get things done on the fly pretty well, I listen to suggestions so I can get a bigger picture of possiblities. I don't enjoy entering any situation close minded, so I go in with an idea, but it is subject to change repeatedly
A vague outline to guide you. this will allow for that “oh wow! lets do this” moment!
i have an idea &, unlike in my young & impulsive age, i allow it to settle & simmer & shape for a while. then i follow with action that gives in to the natural flow of life. why else would i live where the mantra is "go with the flow"?
I am spontanious all the way then every day is a possible adventure though theres obviously things I have to plan.
The more prepared i am, the more comfortable i am going off-script. So its both. Bigtime both.
More calculating but my calculations are usually way off
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