"The more you run from the past, the harder it is to face the present."
Driving down the highway of life, having a glimpse in your rear view mirror at your past is ok...but don't stare because you may drive off into the ditch. You aren't going that way anyway.
I've found a lot of the reasons I am the way I am are from things in my past that have affected me. Finding those things and facing them makes it easier to change.
I heard this long ago and it has been imbued in my mind ever since. "Look Back but Don't Stare." I never ran but learned from what I was encountering. To this I learned a great lesson that if you fall down 5 times to get up 6. You grab the bull by the tail and face the situation. Case closed unless you have added in additives to invoke a positive conversation.
Nice enough challenge of character development