Rofl

I wish it was a joke.

I got the same response when my freinds paid me $20 to ask out the cheer leader captain. I didnt take it personally though. If someone is going to go about their life being that judgmental and abrasive, then I want nothing to do with’em.

Many years ago during my high school years, I walked up to a rather attractive girl I was acquainted with while she was mowing the yard. I asked her if she wanted to go to the Christmas Festival with me. Her reply was "No, I'd rather do this".

Holy fuck!

That's awful!

Sorry to hear that mate. My farther didn't say that, but I knew I was the least favoured of the three of us siblings.

@Whathappensnow thanks man, it's cool, he's dead. I'm not.

I am so sorry to hear that. My father much preferred his sons over me despite me being the one most like him in appearance and personality

I hope you replied "that's right Dad, and I wouldn't donate any of my dog's liver let alone my own to keep you alive another minute".

What an ass. I've heard liver cancer makes people awful however. If he was already nasty to begin with imagine not likely to improve.

So sorry you heard those words. I've been there. Hearing crap like that changes who you are, or could have been.

@FrayedBear He was a strange man, obviously never wanted a family. Was very close to his own father, and from when my grandfather died, my dad was 30 and he just wanted to die. He never stopped drinking, diabetes, liver disease, cirrhosis never stopped him, so finally liver cancer took him out.So, I never lost any sleep, never missed him.

@dutchirish I had 40 years of that attitude and similar comments, quite apt that his was one of the last things he ever said.

@Dispirited I know what you mean, I have 2 kids, and they are the best ever, and I make sure they know how I feel.

@Qualia he actually improved, he died, wasn't as mean after that.

@SherryMartin I can't understand parents taking favourites, I have a son and daughter, they are so different, but I love them both equally.

I see people who call you hurtful names as having issues themselves so my thoughts positively will be to turn it round. Sad when you are a child though..

You are beautiful inside and out!!! I went trough situations like that in my life and learn.... it does not metter what they think... it matters what I think!!!! I love me!!!!!! I am still single

That was a cruel thing for her to have said. Even if she truly thought that,remember she only knew you at that moment. Maybe you just needed more experiences to reach your potential.

She. Is. Not. Right.

I'll fight her

now I'm scared

@steve148 lol

She wasn't joking. Big karma believer. Mean as hell.

We're sisters in experiences. Peace and love to you.

I believe something like 25 % of all preganancies naturally abort mainly because the body recognises that there is something wrong with the foetus. He may have been making the comment with absolutely no consideration for you or your marital status. What amazes me is how the dreadful abominations resulting from things like radiation contamination or zika do not spontaneously abort.

@FrayedBear I was just going to say the same thing. Mother Nature should be thanked for miscarriages as cruel as that is. It's just Nature's way of saying oh well I f***** up ! this one's wrong, and it's not going to make it.

wow. no matter what the cause of the loss of a pregnancy people mourn that loss. TIme of gestation is immaterial but 5 months! you already formed a relation with the little person, so sorry

@FrayedBear Actually he was a judgy human being from day one.
I do understand what you're saying.

But he was a horse's ass.

@Kojaksmom Most occur between 1 to 3 months.

This Dr was a jerk - that wasn't his point at all. I was already weeping when he said this.

He's an Asshole

@SweetHarp I hope you got those feelings out later.

And Divorced him... such a good reason

@btroje Thank you.

@RavenCT that guy was heartless. I havent had a child but I think yoiu could grieve the loss from the moment you know you are pregnant. All those future thoughts...

@RavenCT that does suck. He should have been more supportive and understanding.

@Kojaksmom He was an epic fail. I spoke to other women who dealt with those two (in practice together over the years). They were astoundingly cold men.

Geez I hate some people !

@dutchirish LOL! Well, the result of that comment turned me against god on the spot. I thought that if he was responsible for hurting my baby then I'd find a way to kill him. I'm relieved that he never existed.

Wtf. And they wonder why we become angry at them

That’s just sadistic!

If that had been me... She would have had a broken jaw.
That's one of the worse damn things you could ever say to a parent that has a child (especially a newborn) going through a medical emergency.

@NeoXerops Luckily for her, she said that in a "sympathy card" she sent me to console me when she heard about the trouble. I couldn't figure out a way to kill "god" so let it slide but that was sort of my last time to listen to church stuff.

That might be the most messed up thing I've ever heard. I mean the whole "God tests people with suffering" thing is in itself messed up. But saying it directly displays a tone-deafness and heartless attitude that boggles my mind. I think you definitely made the right call.

Although..if God only exists in the mind of his followers, by ending that belief you kind of did kill him

@Ersomething LOL! True

Crap! That's as bad as anything commented about here.

I always hated that one.

@MST3K I didn't know that you knew my grandmother! How come?

@FrayedBear lol

That made me scream in my head. Just a bit.

@RavenCT yeah nothing raises the ol self esteem quite like "I'm leaving you for someone younger "

Consider yourself Lucky because soon he will be an EX for the rest of your life. Or if he is official ex-husband now... Congratulations. There are still ways an ex can hurt an asshole and get away with it. Most simple... don't ever let him see you cry again. Live with Dignity after the worst chapter in your life. Assholes can't stand to be unwanted or not needed.

Yeah me too. When people tell me what others have said about me I usually laugh because it amuses me that they won't confront me. I'm told my boss fears me.

lol, its all good, demand a rise