Just say Thanks!
I can't imagine a truly confident man (There are those far more confident than I am) responding in a negative way like what they describe in that article. I would PREFER to have my compliments countered with confidence. Something like the following scenario is what I WANT to encounter:
Me: That blouse is quite flattering on you.
Her: I know! That's why I picked it.
Me: I love your confidence. I find it refreshing.
Her: Really? I find that it scares men off.
Me: It sucks to be them, then. I am about to get some coffee. would you care to join me?
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The logic of this reverse sexism should go all the way .....if some jerk sez: " nice tits " women should say my breasts are great to suck but never by tiny penis boys like you