Both/either

Whenever I talk to a guy I usually provide statements. So we always stand on equal ground. But when I talk to women I ask questions and feel like I give them power over the situation.

Like, giving them the control over the situation

To add to that last comment of mine, it also depends on what you are talking about. I know in the classroom I try to pose questions to my students that require more than a yes or no answer. Something that will cause them to actually think. At other times I have to do more lecture.
If I am talking to someone regarding religion, I tend to ask more questions because I want to hear what they think about things.

Are you talking about here on the site, or are you talking about in regular conversation with people in front of you?
I think in face to face conversations, I think it is nice to have a mix of questions and statements.

Not always sure about statements. Statements often seem to me to be something of a challenge by a poster to either agree or disagree with the statement. Questions, on the other hand, impress as an appeal for information, or advice. Where statements are concerned, it often seems argument follows. I don't like argument. Answering a question, it seems, serves a more direct effort to solicit something of value to the answerer, rather than elicit arguable and/or judgemental counterstatements. So, to answer your question, I'd rather be asked questions.

Either works for me..

I enjoy both. I LOVE to be asked questions and formulating thoughtful responses and I like getting to fire my own questions back. The getting-to-know-someone phase is positively engrossing for me.

I dunno, my bank statement makes me cry sometimes so wanna avoid that.

Are you looking for an answer to a question or wanting a statement to be addressed?

Fine with either.

How about a statement finished with a question?