I have 3 cowards in my family, the 3 oldest.
I am the youngest of 5, my brother who is 3 years older than I, has been fighting basal cell cancer for the past 14 months.This past Wednesday we were told that the experimental immunotherapy they've been trying isn't working. He's terminal.
The oldest flew in for 6 days, and spent 90 minutes with him, then proceeded to spent 2 days with the cousins.I called him on the 4th day to see if he was coming to visit, he was Waiting to board his return flight, without even calling my dying brother. The 2nd oldest sister also spent 90 minuted with my brother as she had driven my older brother to visit. My middle sister hasn't visited at all, she texts him and sends memes consisting bouquets of flowers and thoughts and prayers.They have all bitched at me that my brother never returns their calls or texts. I have had to remind them on multiple ocassions that he's on treatments and multiple pain killers, so they need to realize He can't always remember to respond.
So it's been left to me to help him plan his death and cremation, and make a Will..Here's my question, Is it too much to expect them to visit him Before he dies for more than 90 minutes? To show some empathy and love and respect for Our brother?..I am devastated..and emotionally shattered..thoughts?