Last night, I sent this to my daughter:
C - caring and considerate
L- loving, lovely and likable
A - adorable, amusing and amazingly fit
I- imaginative and interesting
R- responsible and romantic
E- energetic and empathetic
Claire replied:
"Oh mom! This just melts my heart!! Thank you!! how kind!"
It may sound like a cliché but I think that love is a flame and it's fuel is time. Time you spend for someone else, whether that someone else is there or not.
I made a new client, who was very anxious about her shy dog going into boarding, relieved that her dog could do well away from her and home. Actually, I didn't do it for her (because I don't like humans). I did it for the dog (who was actually pretty chill anyway) and made sure he would succeed.
I invited a homeless person that was standing outside my regular Dunkin Donut to sit down with me, and have a coffee together and anything else he wanted. He was thrilled and thankful, after an hour, gave him a 20, all I had in cash, and said bye. Haven't seen him around since, that was the last day of May.
I looked a homeless person in the eye and said hello.
I paid for a gift certificate for something I know the person I love really enjoys...just knowing that it is something that brings immense joy makes me happy...
A neighborhood lady called me a few years ago, very alarmed that she couldn't close the door to her house,and afraid that the foundation had settled and her house needed major work. A routine diagnosis, years of kids slamming the door had cracked the jamb and thrown it out of true, I jacked it back into place and nailed it to; a sturdy but unsightly repair. We agreed we'd fix it right when she could afford it. I gave her the dimensions and told her about a mill-work place that gave good deals on returns since I knew she was on SSI and had a part time job at a convenience to make ends meet. She asked me for a bill and I just asked her to buy some flower bulbs from my daughter's class for her school fundraiser. Never did replace the door and maybe it's still there. A couple of years passed and and I got a call from her daughter, she'd died, asking me to stop by and pay my respects. When I got there I only recognized one person, the daughter, and started to explain who I was. One of the sons held up his hand stopped me and said, we all know who you are, you're the guy that was so good to our Mom. Surprising what you can get for fifteen minutes of your time.
Your Edvard Munch "Scream" profile picture is hilarious!
Helped 16 year old change a tire. H was bringing his mother home from hospital chemo treatment
A mate of mine was in hospital. She was on a four bed ward, and going a bit nuts from insomnia. Her family wasn't able to easily visit, so I popped by and delivered an eye mask, earplugs and some umami laden Asian snacks. She was most appreciative.
I had a poem with roses sent to my wife, every week I was away, to let her know I was alive and loved her.
want a "purpose in life"?...lift up others... <3
I refuse to devote one ounce of my time to a life's purpose that might throw out my back.
@MattChanning1 ...no worries Matt...we got your back... ;D
Bought my wife a coffee home that she wasn’t expecting.
When I was in college, I had finished for the day as I was exiting the school parking lot i notice a car that had blown its tire. 2 elderly ladies were looking dumbfounded. I stopped not even saying a word I changed their tire for them got back in my car and went home. I fear that trying to help someone in these times could be asking for problems.
Yes,seems the thugs are looking for helpless victims,today.Acts of kindness are very appreciated....