I fell for a successful confident guy who celebrated my successes with me, rather than being threatened by them or trying to belittle them. He sought an equal 50/50 partner, accepting that we each brought strengths and weaknesses to the table, without dictating what those had to be. He requested my input and seriously listened, grateful for whatever I could contribute. We ended up together, falling into roles that reflected what each liked and disliked doing. It was easy, comfortable, natural, and very fun!

Funny be funny. Be open to adventure and can not be tied to any one place. A strong woman will probably live off grid (speaking from experience) and would love a man to really listen to what they are saying. But most of all take life easy and funny.

Tell her: I want to know more about you. Where would you like to go for a coffee?
You are inviting her but, at the same time, you are allowing her to decide the place. It works with me.