I love Jackson Katz. He was the first one that taught me about various masculinities in university. Prior to that, the focus in sociology gender courses was about women and femininity, so it was a nice change of pace. His documentary, Tough Guise, is worth a watch imo! Also this:

Sex education MUST begin with language training....both my daughters learned anatomically correct words as soon as they began speaking and reasoning.....boys must learn to stand and urinate the same as consent to procreate....fuck all this cultural counter cultural bullshit in public schools....parents must be taught NEVER SEXUAL ABUSE their children with religious lies or practices. ...learning not to rape should be the same as learning to prevent STDs including HUMAN PAPILLOMAVIRUS hpv that causes cervical cancer and warts on all hands

I like the article, but it doesn't end with Entitlement. If men were granted cultural permission to be caring and empathetic, entitlement wouldn't be a factor.

I listen to women complain about the things they were taught as children and how those things have negatively affected their lives, and I sympathize.

Then I listen to women complain about the behavior of men, who are only doing what they were taught to do as children. There is zero sympathy, as if men were super-beings and able to override our programming like flipping a switch.

I could call that "The Masculine Mystique".

Hmmm. My school failed on many levels by not stopping boys from grabbing my breasts in middle school.

The thing to combat is objectification. It's not enough to teach boys not to hurt girls and women. You have to make them see us as equals, as human beings who deserve respect. Sometimes that means working against a whole lot of cultural influences.

Good point my kids know better than to hurt women, I instilled that at a early age same with grandson it's wrong to hurt women period