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Is it still a lie if you don't know it isn't true?

If you tell someone something with certainty, believing that it is true but it isn't really true, are you lying? I personally believe it is lying, although it's far more innocent that knowingly lying. I've heard others say it isn't.

Personally I believe that we have a responsibility to make sure that what we are sharing with others is true before sharing it as truth. I don't think we are entirely off the hook when we spread lies unwittingly. Of course, I think we all do that at times and I don't think it's a fatal flaw.

What do you guys think?

EDIT: I realize I got a little off track when writing my question. The question I'm more interested in is it is still a lie if you don't know it isn't true.

For example, if 100 people told me the moon was made of cheese and every single one of them believed that it really was, does that change the nature of the idea that they shared with me? Could you still say, you've been lied to, even though the intent of every person who told me the moon was made of cheese was never to deceive me?

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Definitionally, lying requires intentional coverup of known facts. Of course, in practical terms, deliberate lying vs sincerely-held but inaccurate beliefs have the same effect on others. Wrong-headed beliefs are in a way actually worse than lies because since the teller believes what they are saying, they actually order their lives and decisions around it rather than merely deceiving others -- they themselves are also deceived.

I tend to use this hierarchy of severity:

Beliefs: if unsubstantiated (or, as is true with much of religion, unsubstantiatABLE) then either the belief-holder is delusional or willfully ignorant, or both. People who WANT to believe the same, tend to accept the delusion for themselves; those who don't, don't.

Lies: Deliberate deceit where the liar knows the truth.

Bullshit: Deliberate untruth without even a covering effort to tie it to reality. This is what Trump does most of the time with his claims. Just make shit up on the fly and repeat it without shame until people either believe it or grow tired of resisting it. "Fake news", "the failing [insert news outlet or business here]", "the loser / incompetent / hating [insert person's name here]", are all examples of this.

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Problem is can anyone ever know the real truth. Often facts are facts with caveats.

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As mentioned previously, a lie requires intent to deceive. If you don't know it's false there can't be an intent to deceive. Just so you're clear trump LIES continually

lerlo Level 8 May 18, 2020

Yes. Though I would assert, given his position of responsibility, Trump has additional burden to vet his statements and assumptions, which he is carelessly NOT doing. The potential of "innocent or negligent" harm is great.

I don't think his lack of intent to harm miraculously turns a lie to truth or even "not lie". A lie remains a lie with out regard to the intent of the teller, IMHO.

@Normanbites just because something isn't a lie doesn't make it true. When the idiot said we're building a wall in Colorado, it wasn't a lie because he's too stupid to know the difference, but it wasn't true

@lerlo I think the issue I am stumbling over, is whether a lie (false statement) has the quality that makes it a lie, because of the character of the message itself or is the quality that makes it a lie, a characteristic of the messenger.

If the characteristic that makes it a lie belongs to the message, then a lie remains a lie.

But if the characteristic that makes it a lie belongs to the messenger, then even if he tells the truth, it should still be a lie, because his character has not changed. But if a person with out the lie characteristic repeats the same message, it would then no longer be a lie, because that characteristic of the messenger has changed.

And that pretty much encapsulates the conundrum without solving it.

@Normanbites Well it's a self made conundrum so I will leave you to solve it. Perhaps checking out the dictionary definition of a lie would help.

@lerlo If it were a conundrum I made up, this thread would have died in it's infancy. Your lie has been exposed. 😀

@Normanbites Yes, transfer the blame. you have learned well from the dodger in chief

@lerlo Anyone who reads this thread will know better, Donnie.

@Normanbites unless they try and figure out whether your character has anything to do with your message and then they're all going to be messed up

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All truth in the end is subjective, and follows the paradigms of the questioner, their experiences and current knowledge. Thus, if one can justify a statement, then it is true and not a lie. Many NAZIs lived by the knowledge that Jews and others are lesser animals. To them, that was true, to me it is a lie.
That was fairly easy, but now consider the notion that god created man, then woman in the garden of eden. Science shows that all complex life on earth starts out as female and around 50% of humans mutate into females. Using this supportable science, then the bibles/torah/quoran has it arse about face and Eve came about first with Adam being drawn from her rib (Lilith being discarded). Yet Adam is still being preached as the first born. Ergo, a lie.
Then internal and external truths, but I'll save that for another time if people wish to keep reading.

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A lie detector works on the premise that when you are making an obvious effort to distort the truth your body will generate enough signals to catch you in the act. So using that yardstick, a lie requires a deliberate departure from what you believe to be true. Absent that it is not a lie. Consider the scenario of the man with an eye condition where colors are distorted for him. Blue looks the same as green to him. When he says the sky is green or the same color as the leaves of the tree, he is not lying. That is his truth.

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"History is a set of lies agreed upon.”

Napoleon Bonaparte

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When you tell a lie it is because you know in your mind that you are lying. Telling an un-truth is another matter. Most of us know when we are not telling the truth. By this logic you know that when Charlie tells you he has pixies living in his shoes or that there is an invisible man watching you in the sky, Charlie is either:

  1. Indoctrinated early on into his belief or decided it was true because he has always heard it is true.
    OR
  2. Charlie is as crazy as a loon.

This last idea is an expression as I'm not sure loons (birds) are crazy. It may also go back to the word "lunatic" which involves asylums or the moon having something to do with ones beliefs.

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If you don't know something is true and you pass it, it is a RUMOUR.... if it is not true, it makes you a liar. Don't pass rumours, they can destroy people's life and cause strife in your community. Sometimes an apology is not enough to undo what you have done. Why would you want any negativity associated with you like that?

USA is drowning in lies ....labeling truth tellers as rumours only harms the liars..... apology is often false hero worship .... cults brainwash victims into liars

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If in doubt, I always consult the wisdom of George Costanza:

But is that a lie . . . ?

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Always a good idea to not only say what it is that you believe to be true, but also your reasons for believing it to be true. The person you are talking to then has a better idea what weight to give to your certainty. If however you are not honest about why you believe something to be true, this can make it a kind of a lie, however much you believe it to be true.

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Basic premise is that for something to be true you must believe it to be true and it must be true. St Augustine wrote a critical study of lyings called, of course, On Lying. Augustine might be considered the forerunner of truth tables. Four possibilities. You say it's true and it is true; You say what you believe is true and it's false; You say it's False and it is in fact False; and, you say it's False, believing it to be true. The key thing is that lies are meant to deceive; truth states are meant to illuminate reality. As Bruce asks, is a dream just a lie if it don't come true, or is it something worse?

Deep thoughts. Thanks for sharing.

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If I knew it wasn't true then it would be a lie.

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To lie is to knowingly deceive. Is there a lie hidden in the statement, I know there is a God? Maybe, I suspect that people lie to themselves all the time.

I respect your advice that people need to fact check before making a claim of truth. Or at the minimum state that what the claim they’re offering hasn’t been fact checked. It’s a practice that becomes second nature quickly. People would be surprised to discover how much we claim is incorrect.

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Rationalization is an interesting form of a lie. The example of the man using the N word and claiming it is innocent is an example. That is not the same as someone making a false statement he truly believes to be true. That, I would call a mistake. Everyone has their own take on reality. As Einstein said, there is no such thing as objectivity...that pure objectivity is impossible. Therefore, pure truth is an absolute that we should all seek to obtain. Truth is a skill and a process, always striving to obtain this absolute. Every time we declare a truth, especially when it is difficult to do so, we strengthen our ability to be truthful. Every time we lie, we weaken our ability to attain truthfulness. Case in point: Trump. He lies so much that he can't be truthful. For him, that skill is gone completely.

Some of you might say science is an absolute. But science is always changing. What is proven right today is proven wrong tomorrow. Yes, there are absolutes in science, like gravity. You could say that science is an effective pursuit of Truth and science does get close. Then again, many of us confuse technology with science. Technology is the application of science..not science. Monsanto claims their technology is science, thereby silencing some who oppose their destructive activities.

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If you intend to lie but mistakenly tell the truth, is it a lie? Seems to me that if/when it's immoral to tell a lie, it is equally as immoral to try to lie even though you fail to pull it off--regardless of whether you call it a lie or not.

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Lie is an intentional act, or at the very least a reckless disregard for truth. Yes, we all have responsibility in attempting to ascertain the truth, but the truth can be ... elusive. I don't think ignorance equates with lying. I am not sure which is better, lying or ignorance.

Ignorance is not a crime, but I think ignorance is its' own punishment. 😮 😛

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Is a poison still a poison if you don't know it is a poison?

I think that is a fair analog because most poison is served up as part of an inherent lie. ... Here, eat this, its good for you!!

BAD analogy, a LOT of poisons are NOT harmless. SOME lies are fairly harmless, especially if the teller does not know the "truth".

Agreed. That's a terrible analogy.

No, I think the analogy holds. If you don't know a poison is a poison, you don't know how harm(less) it might be. Same with a lie you don't know is a lie .... you know like the vaccine deniers .... the illusion kills, even though they think they are doing good.

Verify your assumptions! Is that really too much to ask?

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So, THAT explains President Don-Jon's situation perfectly! He doesn't tell lies, he just doesn't have enough sense to know what is true and what is false. Problem solved! 😜 Larry in western Kentucky

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Do Bears stink if no one is around to smell em?

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I think when you tell something without knowing its true, even if you think it might be true,....it comes under the heading of "gossip".

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This question could raise quite a response, were it directed to Donald Trump. I would love to know what his answer would be, since it is inconceivable that he does not know that virtually everything he says is a lie, something he would never acknowledge! He could fill a chapter in the annals of Psychiatric Medicine!

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I have a regular statement I make when engaging total strangers in debate: "If you want to believe lies that's your business. If you want to repeat lies it becomes my business." And somehow I've managed to avoid bodily injury (so far).

When I relate some bit of "knowledge" or information to which I have been exposed, but the details of which I have forgotten or on which I am not totally sure, I always qualify my statement with a disclaimer. like "'I believe I read somewhere, although I,m not sure; Maybe I heard it, but I can't say where. Anyway, I think it's true though it may not be, so don't take my word for it, but at any rate....Now where was I?" 🤷♀️🤞🤳😉

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No, It's only a lie if you know it is not true.

BD66 Level 8 May 18, 2020
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Although intent is important to define lies or mistakes, since you are asking about responsibility in spreading lies, then I must make a clarification now that social media has become the source of so many conspiracy theories. Many people do not filter even with a modicum of common sense or logic diseminating memes or links of stupidity or conspiracy theory bullshit that doesn't pass any smell test, but then when somebody calls our gullibility for spreading shit, lots of people eash their hands saying "oh, I did it without knowing and with the best of intentions, in case it may help or warn someone." In that case, yes; I would say you are willingly spreading lies. I hate when that happens!

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I Agree. Reminds me of the old telephones "party lines", politicians, G5, used car salesmen, and religion. Its endless!

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