so... um... help me with this... i just browsed who has been checking me out... and it's mostly 70+ year old men... am i a type for 70+ year old gay men?
listen... i am not insecure and have no issue with my LGBTQIA brothers and sisters... but ... i came here to hopefully meet a woman around my age (ok, maybe a bit younger, being fully transparent) but... like 40 men in the 70+ age bracket....
The vast majority of people who visit my page are also men. I noticed that a long time ago, and I don't know why. Certainly there aren't any men here who want to emulate me.
A lot of people check out profiles, often just to find out what part of the world you come from, because that reflects on how they understand your posts. Sometimes it is just accident, it is easy to hover on the profile button without intending it. And as to seventy year old men, well 'we' (am nearly one) generally are lazy lumps with time to waste, so we dominate everything on a site like this.
No age or preference is shown on your little avatar pic, just the % of your "meshing", so somebody has to click on you to get to your bio & find these things out, or even where you are. Nothing more than that.........
Checking your location for organizing Atheism is not a homosexual activity of mine..... I only know of 2 gay men here and a few more trans people so the rest must be like me just curious to see if we are neighbors..... I joined 2 years ago in hopes of marrying a Atheist Feminist woman who would share or support my political vision ... I have failed .... your goal seems more achievable....don't worry most Atheist gays seek peers not converts
Face it — you're human Viagra to the septuagenarian crowd. If finding a woman near your age falls through, it's good to know you have options.
Seriously, I wouldn't worry too much about it. I figure most of us turned off the visitor tracking, but some of the older members might not realize that toggle exists. You're probably just seeing a skewed sampling of who visited your profile.
wow... i am even more privileged than i thought....
Not everyone is here for romance so visiting someone's profile does not necessarily mean that those men were interested in you romantically. I would hate anyone whose profile I visit to think that I was interested in them romantically.
This isn't a dating website but your confusion is understandable and I'm glad you raised the issue. Now if gay men were hitting on you by pm, that would be different but if your profile is specific, that's not going to happen. Hope that helps.
thanks for the response... i was really messing around...
what's very funny is that a VERY NICE gay man 70+ did perv my wall and sent me a pm telling me that i was not all that... and we've been chatting for 1/2 hour.
(honestly, i don't think i'm all that... and anyone is welcome to check me out... i'll be kindly flattered...