Just a quick up-date for those interested in the case of "B" versus parent, Catholic School and School Chaplain ( a Catholic Priest btw).
The case is set to be heard in the Local Courts 1 week from next Tuesday.
Solicitors for the Defendants tried to have the case moved to a Court out of this region but the Magistrate denied their application on the Thursday just gone.
"B" is doing quite well with, in his words, "New Family," and now is awaiting appointments with a visiting Specialist who handles cases such as "B's", etc.
The Court case will be held as a " Closed to the Public" Hearing, ALL supporters for "B" and "B" WILL be collected from their homes and transported to Court in Unmarked Police vehicles.
If the Defendants plead Guilty then ALL, including "B" will NOT be required to give evidence and will face sentencing later in the week, probably facing sentences ranging between 5 - 7 years in prison.
Further little up-date to the "B" ( Belinda) Case.
Belinda and 'new' family arrived as expected for our counseling session as scheduled.
No, I didn't faint, but what a surprise I got.
We've all heard the story of the Ugly Duckling-Swan, well this is more like the enforced caterpillar- brilliant Butterfly transformation.
But my shock came when Belinda showed us all some of the elastic type bandages her ex-parents wrapped her in EVERY SINGLE day for the last 1 and a half years in 'efforts' to conceal/hide her developing breasts, etc,.
When she demonstrated to us all, using me as a model btw, how tightly they were wound around her and for how long she was literally FORCED to wear them, we all became somewhat outraged at such blatant cruelty and, imo, sadism.
Now, thankfully, Belinda wears very nice, feminine clothes, has a very nice hairstyle, just a very small touch of lipstick, etc, BUT, in her words, " Can;t get the knack of walking in women's shoes as yet.
The best part,to my mind, was when she stated clearly that she has NOT had ANY nightmares, can breathe properly, behave like herself and IS no longer made to feel like, in her words, " some, dirty, little family secret that needs to be kept hidden away from everyone."
The only 'draw-back' was that just when my sore ribs were recovering from being squeezed when the Policewoman hugged me is that Belinda decided I deserved an even bigger hug and boy did she hug me, my ribs are still aching today.
But hey, it IS all worth it.
Oh boy, the "B" story just keeps getting better and better.
Just had phone call from " B" now calling herself Belinda, Social Security ( Centrelink) must have gotten 'bomb' under their arses big time.
They have back-dated her Youth Allowance Payments to August, 2020, she also receives AustStudy and can resume studies from home, she now has her OWN Bank Account in which she found last evening her first payment.
After a 2 hour shopping session this morning with her NEW Family, she has a whole new wardrobe of feminine clothing, etc, a whole new hairstyle and IS trying to 'walk' in womens style footwear but has a "few 'little' sore spots on her bum from stumbling and hitting the floor," LOL.
Oh, and her final words were " Please don't faint when we arrive this afternoon for our meeting, I'm coming as a woman."
Hope all goes well. Too bad there's no hell for idiots like that to rot in. Very glad B is getting that help so quickly.
Well, there kind of is, its called prison and the Judge assigned the case is i) a Female, ii) a parent to 3 children, 2 Grandchildren and, iii) NOT know for being lenient in cases like this one.
I'm still counseling a victim from a case that arose just over a year ago where the Father, the Step-mother and Step-Aunt sexually abused a young teenage girl repeatedly over quite some time.
The very same Judge heard and tried that case as will be doing this one, those 3 scum-bags copped maximum penalties and were ordered to serve them in the Non-segregated sections of the prisons.
I'll leave it up your imagination as what kind of 'reception' the hardened inmates have giving them.
@Triphid Well that's a good thing then. So many seem to get away with this bs, that I'm always a little skeptical. Yes, child abusers are not forgiven easily in that situation. I have 3 kids, & 6 grandkids myself.
Hell is a slow and physically painful death. Or a life filled with physical pain that can’t be suppressed. I was at a Military collectibles show years ago, and came across a book that described torture techniques that were used by former Soviet NKVD (Secret Police) and later by the SS in Nazi Germany. What I read was amazing and horrifying at the same time.
What I read in this book is what I would apply to this subhuman garbage.
In case no one has told you lately, you are a truly marvelous human being.
I'm glad we're acquainted.
Hope B continues to heal and really starts to thrive.
May his abusers rot in prison and receive the "justice" they richly deserve.
Blimey, thanks but please ease up on the acclaim, etc, it is nice but I do what I do because i) it's what I've always done, ii) it IS the right and decent thing to and I love helping those in need.
I do NOT see myself as being 'special' in any way, shape nor form, I do it also because in most cases I've been where they are now.
@Triphid I get that, BUT, I really want to make this point.
There are too many people in this world who are really quick to tell you when you're fucking up and do their best to make you feel like shit.
Telling you that you're a marvelous human being isn't unwarranted acclaim.
It's simple recognition.
You deserve that.
Accept it, and keep on keeping on.
Is there a link to more information on this case?
That's great that "B" is doing well.. ☺ thanks for the update...
No probs. " B" rang me not 20 minutes ago today, we have another session scheduled for tomorrow to discuss HER, as "B" now refers to herself being no longer a female trapped in a male body, plans to go on treatments, etc, etc, that will eventually rectify the hormone and other 'problems plus seeking legal ways to change her full name and sever all ties with her parents as well.