How important should it be for you and your partner to share the same belief set, or lack there of?
I don't think I've ever had a relationship partner who had the same beliefs as me. None of them worked out, possibly because I have a low tolerance for gullibility and magical thinking. Perhaps it depends on how firmly set the beliefs on each side are. If I ever found a potential partner with similar beliefs, that would be a great first step, but there would likely be other deal breakers.
As long as they can STFU about it, so could i.......