of course dah that is what we do with everything

Not reading in..... But rather not able to read for comprehension.

You have to be very careful about what you type. Making sure that every sentence and paragraph is plain and clear with no possibilities for misunderstandings, even if that means writing in a very long winded style, of the sort you would use when writing to dyslexic ten year olds. ( There are quite a few dyslexic ten year olds on this site, not just me. ) You will still get misunderstood, but that reduces the numbers.

I assume you are correct in your assumptions.

You touch upon a complex area of human communication.

As @diaco suggests, face-to-face communication is much richer than just words written on an (electronic) page, and so that form of communication can disambiguate a lot of possible ambiguity.

As @p-nullifidian suggests, it takes time and effort to read other people's words closely and to ponder the writer's real intentions. Again as he suggests many people don't bother to do that.

For myself, I am aware that any given word or phrase can mean different things in different parts of the English-speaking world.

As @lerlo suggests, people can change the meaning of words in their own minds to suit themselves.

Looking at your own bio, I would suggest that it might be a mistake to think that even 10% of the population has your own analytical habit of mind.

I hope this helps.

(edited for typo)

You're correct. It's amazing how people here change whatever your post is to what they want the post to be. Just get used to it and carry on

Most of us, maybe all of us, seem hardwired to immediately react to what we read. It is only upon a rereading, and a reflection on the original comment (and more importantly our response), that we can better gauge our emotional—intellectual balance when posting to the site.

Hmm, always there's chances of misunderstanding, especially in social media, in real life we use body language, voice dynamics, and all to make a clear and better connection but here we just have words. so take it easy, it's normal

I think that’s just the way people are.
Always.