Meaness, toward anyone, including animals.

I'm with you. Trust is a must.

I'd say trust as well but agree with meaness and definitely no to any type of violence!

Duplicity

Several things. Trust, intelligence, non religious, and not a trump or tea party supporter.

Trust.
I'd never enter a relationship with a religious person or a few other things, but trust is essental.

I've been in the same one and we're compatible. But for me, politics would be the deal breaker. I feel like the differences between the right and left get down to ones morals, sense of right and wrong, values of life, liberty, equality, and responsibility to our species and environment. It's a fundamental approach to life that I would have to be in agreement with.

women with a nob

Religion.

Dishonesty. It's hard to ever trust that person again if they have lied.

We've go to really like each other's company.

Lying/dishonesty, which leads to broken trust. Abuse is not acceptable, but abusers are most often liars to begin with, so it goes back to my basic premise.

I wouldn't qualify my deal breakers as better or worse or biggest or smallest.

They cheated - huge. They are a habitual liar - not so huge. One will hurt more than the other, but they both will end the deal.

They are violent - huge. They are a lazy, spoiled slob. One will do more damage than the other, but both will end the deal.

I'm sure you get what I'm saying. A deal breaker is absolute, deal over.

Mine are all the obvious ones that I'm sure everybody else has already or will post.

Disinterest.

Same here. Trust is essential. Abuse is as bad also.

I put up with a lot of shit in my 20 year EX-marriage. But it was the broken trust that did it for me when I first suspected and then was able to verify that she was having an affair. I divorced her and have been single and sex-less ever since. It has caused me to trust very very few women.

Smokers, heavy drinkers and drug users need not apply.

Kids. Or smoking.

Lacks compassion.

Religion.....To me professing a religion is a sign of lacking intelligence....The other are a low level of education, distance, children, extremely family oriented, no friends....

Abuse of any kind.
Drug user or Alcohol overuse
Smoker (30 year smoker/smoke free 4+ years
Gamer who shirks responsibility to game
No sex. Must be willing and able and often

I do have a few. One being a smoker. That is the first deal breaker. Another is having pets. A lot of people have pets but I am pet free and like the freedom it gives me to go and do whatever so I can do things with another person not having to worry about animal issues. Been there, done that, never again.

Drugs. Specifically prescription painkillers. Living with a junkie means the compass always points to shit. Smoking is a close second as my Mom died an extremely quick and painful death from lung cancer. No point in bringing up religion as they never even get a chance to bat.

Trust, smoking, snoring...

Un dealt with snoring is not the one for me .. lol any of the above !

Well, the obvious. Other than that? Using sex as power and control.