If he lied about his age where does the lying stop.

I'm not a fan of the idea of right/wrong so I classify actions roughly as functional/dysfunctional and clever/stupid. This is a stupid and dysfunctional strategy for exactly the reason you point out. If he'd lie so dramatically about his age what wouldn't he lie about? And it's stupid to believe the lie wouldn't be obvious at first meeting.

After wasting 10 years of my life with a lying cheat, I don't have any patience for someone who can't be truthful, so I'm with you on that. Honesty, honor and respect are pretty big with me going forward.

I remember when I was on dating sites, men often lied about their age, but corrected it quickly after getting a response from their targets. When asked why they would do such a thing, they would reply that they wanted to fit into the search brackets women were seeking.

I actually would have more respect for a man who is honest about his age whether he could pass for someone much younger, because of a healthy lifestyle - or a man who actually looks his age. Nothing wrong with looking one's real age.

I've been told that women also lie on dating sites about their age for the same reasons. And that they would post only head shots, often retouched, that didn't show their real body shape and actual complexion. I was always honest to a fault, as I would rather prospective dates be pleasantly surprised when they saw me in person - rather than disappointed as I was hearing other men complain about.

I have no idea why people cannot be honest, it is like the person they are trying to contact is not smart enough to see reality. Eventually, everything is going to have to be explained, if it gets that far. Much better to keep encounters authentic and let the honesty get one where it will.

Absolutely. A liar is always a liar. I don't care about age, but honestly is my #1 must have. The last guy I dated lied about his age by 10 years, and he turned out to be flat-out crazy. I still think he's stalking me.

Yes, I think it's wrong to lie about anything substantial in a dating profile.

He lies about his age, and only gives headshots. He's got a track record already for lying, what else is he willing to lie about it. Consider that bullet dodged.

Maybe he is like me and looks like a gorilla.

If I were to post a profile on a dating site I would post the following description. Previously leased transportation, age as stated. Daily maintenance carried out and bodywork in good condition. A few minor blemishes to be expected for the age of the vehicle, paintwork thinning on the roof. Runs well and gear change is smooth with variable transmission that operates appropriately for the terrain, a reliable vehicle.

Self start voice activated interactive modes. Kindly acquaint yourself with the user manual to avoid frustration. All inquiries answered and all reasonable offers duly considered. Please see enclosed recent photos, viewing by appointment only.

That's pathetic AND predatory. Good dodge!

I'm with you. I've never lied about my age and I don't understand why anyone does.

You weren't harsh at all. Good riddance to those liars!

I was on dating sites yonks ago, maybe 17yrs ago. Most of the men post pics of them in their younger days, some pics even in wedding suits when they first got married in their 20s. Lie about their age. Some noticeably in fashion from yesterday. Some are married but don't say. Total misrepresentation and premeditated deception ! Do they think we're born yesterday! Grrrrrrr

I just hide a few bad teeth. But this is the year to get them fixed.......... finally !

You were not too harsh. One lie = many lies and a host of other bad things.

I am almost 79 and I have my real age posted here, but it eliminates me from about 95% of searches, because people search by age, and most men want a younger woman. However, the truth always comes out eventually so why lie?

Many men also post a main photo of themselves that was taken 20 or 30 years ago....I think they believe they still look like that. Then you agree to meet them and an old man shows up.

It's best to be honest.

It's wrong to lie, period.

Absolutely wrong.

If he can't take the truth, too bad for him. If he can't tell the truth, even worse.

He lied about something too easily found out.
Shows he has a major character flaw, and cannot be trusted.
He only blocked you because he's embarrassed that he got busted.

Another bullet dodged.

Lying is a total deal breaker for me, as is toxic insecurity. Next!

Nope you are right

this was a rough experience, but he's the one who is badly dishonest with the whole community on a key point.

Yes. Honesty is the best policy.