I never see the word "masculinity" used without being preceded by "toxic". Contemporary society believes there is no other kind of masculinity.

There is both a social component (aggression, misogeny, etc) AND personal component, according to most definitions, which requires males to repress their emotions and to be exclusively self reliant.

I hope that both my XX and XY genotypic children get to embrace their HUMANITY, while having regard for others.

Be a PERSON first, treat others as People first, forget all that 'should' Crap you were taught.

I agree with the comments below, but I will add that, just like almost everything else these days, it seems like there may be a bit of over-correction on this. I've been accused of mansplaining when it was simply just a case of explaining something that was being misunderstood. The other situation has also happened where a female doctor who can't get enough of calling out mansplaining (which to be fair, she has probably encountered a lot of discrimination) doctorsplained something to me that as a veteran nurse of almost 20 years was a very elementary task. The sex/gender of the person giving and receiving the X-plaining is largely irrelevant. Either you're being a rude asshole or you're not, so to label it as a sex/gender thing is silly in my opinion.

Yes. My future wife experienced toxic masculinity at the hands of her boyfriend of the time.

Healthy masculinity looks like having a supreme regard for the needs, fears and mistakes of the partner.