I know people also meet through friends/relatives, work, school, or common interests -- I mean, obviously people have gotten together way before the Internet was even an idea -- but if you could, be specific.
I held a chess night. These things were always stag (women have got better things to do with their time). But Lee brings this lady. They werent dating she just needed somewhere to be. So there was an odd number of us playing chess so it meant that one guy would sit out whilst the others played.That gave Julie someone to talk to on rotation. She was in hiding from her guy. She had asked him to get out but he was abusive. The best thing she could think of was to disappear. At that point it was 2 weeks MOI or AWOl. So the chess night ended but she stayed and talked. Boy did she talk. I said I
m going to bed and she could have the sofa or join me. She choose the sofa but came to bed claiming that my clock was too loud to sleep over. She talked some more... I think it must have been over 18 hours of her talking, I swear she was talking in her sleep. We woke and she talked some more. It was afternoon by the time she ran out of breath and we made love.
That over 20 years ago. We were together for 15 of them and she is still my best friend.
An epilogue; The next night she goes home to confront her soon to be ex. I get a distraught phone call. He has been really abusive yet again. Julie is in tears and she is a very strong and not a tearful woman. He has left now but goodness knows what will happen next. As I drove over to hers, I see the guy walking down the street. I pull over and punch his lights out. I had not hit anyone since school but all my frustration and importance gathered over the years of listening to woman who had suffered at the hands of bastards like this boiled over and I could not help myself. I left him on the floor and went to her.
I guess I did not know it yet but I was in love
That's a bit sad, that she had to hide to escape an abusive relationship.
At the gym, being introduced by a 3rd party, in line at the deli counter, at work, walking down the street in Philadelphia. Disclaimer here is that I'm still single and unattached but then your question was about meeting and not longevity LOL
Hmmm... close to how it was with me.
@BucketlistBob Hahaaa yeah it is a sad state of affairs
@AmelieMatisse. Awww... your cute... you should have no problems having fun dating.
@BucketlistBob besides being geographically undesirable and still employed besides living in Central PA it is not easy
@AmelieMatisse. I think its just around the corner for you.
@BucketlistBob are you a prognosticator, bookie, or an astrologer, or perhaps a tarot reader LOL
@AmelieMatisse. Just a friend with a positive perspective towards an observation. And why not a good thing happening to you?
I have met people through mutual interest groups through Meetup and other social groups. I ran a photography group for a few years, now I run an independent film group.
If I see someone I’m really attracted to I may go and talk to her, no matter where I am: in a shop, walking along in the street etc
You're brave!
@Ellatynemouth Never had a bad response. Some have ignored me and walked away, but met my last but one girlfriend in a shop.
Good for you! I've flashed a smile a few times but haven't been brave enough to initiate conversation. I'm currently crushing on the UPS guy who delivers to my work. I get so flustered when he comes in that I still haven't had the wherewith-all to see if he wears a wedding ring.
I've never used the Internet for dating.
Guess I'm really old school.
Wife and I found each other at work.
In my youth.... bars, libraries, school, the gym.
First wife I met at my dentist, she cleaned my teeth. Second wife I stole from my roommate!
I dated my ex-husband's college roommate. We met when Terry took me to a music store in Seattle where Willy worked.
"I wanted you to love me, not Terry," Willy said later. He had unrequited love me during my 15-year marriage. "I'm married," I said when Willy tried to tell me how he felt.
When I got divorced. Willy jumped. Willy and I lived together for five years after my divorce.
The coffee shop, while I was at the mall with friends and the library.
Work...3rd party intro...other single parents(usually in the same neighborhood)...
lol my ex was a plumber who unplugged my toilet in the apartment I rented. Talk about romantic, huh?
That's kinda funny!
@Marcie1974 we thought so, too! that weekend we took his motorcycle to the mountains overlooking an artist colony and made burgers over a fire under the stars and I mean stars, like I'd never seen the sky before, free from light.
hahaha love life's twist and turns. He was my son's father. It ended well!
@crazycurlz that’s awesome! Glad that if it had to end, that it ended well
No better place for me than the dance floor. Half a century with same Modus Operandi and you want me to change?
Modus operandi...
I met a man whom I dated for 50 years thru my sons- he was their soccer coach. before that, I met my husband thru his business. I had pneumonia and he was my doctor
Usually through work, which can be a good thing or bad thing I suppose. You get to know each other a little bit first just by being at work with them and if you like each other you always have an excuse to see each other. On the other hand, it can get awkward if it doesn't work out.
I knew my first romantic interest from growing up together as MKs (missionary kids) in Haiti, dance partner at a ballroom dance, newspaper classified ad, neighbor, bar, dating club, friend of my family, high school friend.