What is your real question? Do you want to know about frequency of sexual contact between married couples? That's no one's business but theirs. Are you looking for some "perfect recipe" for how a successful couple behaves? That differs from couple to couple, too. Or are you still hammering at the "women have too much power" idea, or whatever it is that is bothering you ? You keep putting up the same type of posts, but i don't know what you are looking for or what the real question is. If the real question is, "how can i build a successful relationship with someone?", ask that question and we will be glad to try to help you. But these vague postings, that aren't questions and whose relevance is unclear, don't encourage people to provide good responses because they are unsure what you are asking or what they should say.