The main details: Divorced/widowed white male geek seeks single female (preferrably nonsmoker) in Tuscaloosa area for possible long term relationship.
I was a military brat and I am a veteran. I lived in various states as well as Japan while I was growing up. I was therefore exposed to various ways of thinking from the different regions I was in.
I am a liberal and an atheist, two things that seem to be a road bump in finding someone around here. However, I am not ashamed of either of those and I don't want to give you a false impression of me, so I always like to put that in my ad.
I am a bit of a geek. I like reading, watching television/movies, creating different types of artwork (which aren't very good, but they are fun to do), playing video games, and the like. When it comes around, I like to go to DragonCon and the Renaissance Festival in Atlanta as well as visiting amusement parks.
I also like going to the beach and waterparks.
My favorite music is comedy music, such as Weird Al Yankovic, Tom Lehrer, and similar.
In the interest of full(er) disclosure, I am on the autism spectrum. Mind you, nobody (including myself) knew that I was until my mid-40s, so it isn't something that should be a problem.
I am looking for a female somewhat around my age in/near the Tuscaloosa area. I would prefer a nonsmoker (420 is okay), but would consider a smoker if the rest of the personality fits well with mine.
I have been in both polyamorous and monogamous relationships. Truth be told, I prefer a poly relationship, because there are more people involved for a greater support network.