That is a wonderful response! (And then do you simply delete the emails he sends to you?)

Savage!

My Dad used to pressure me quite a bit to come back to God. I finally got annoyed and told him the only higher power here was me and I'm fine not going to church. Problem solved and we have been best friends for the last 20 years. We can even talk about our different beliefs respectfully. I think he needed to see that I really wasn't going to change my mind no matter what. Bit of a gamble, probably save it for a last resort.

I would have to say it was quite a eloquent response

You've said it all.

Perhaps this friend is afraid of death and clinging to some comfort.

With age comes a fear of the end. One day everyone suddenly realises that life isn't eternal. This births a need for comfort and the most unsettling question is "what is after death?" Religion gives this question a kind answer whilst also attempting to keep people in check. Religion offers peace with no really hardship to endure to get it. It's an easy way to answer a difficult question. And those around you who deny it interupt your peace with death and they do all they can to show nonbelievers that what they think is true thus further validating their own desire for avoiding entropy.

I like it??

Very nice and sincere letter. I hope he can respect your request.

My older brother has turned religious conservative (even voted Trump) since his diagnosis of a lung disease. He’s my brother. He knows I’m not interested.

Good luck with this! I had a friend (notice the tense of that verb) who became obnoxiously religious. Over time, we realized it was a symptom of Alzheimer's for her....just a retreat. Do you think this will work? Your friend may already be gone. OH..and I agree with those who think it was a perfectly-worded response!

My step-dad's doing something kind of similar... It's him more than anyone who ensured I grew up an atheist, as he railed against the unscientific stuff in the Bible and set me on the course to challenging all the baseless assertions it makes.

But he was no skeptic. Now, in later life, he's becoming more and more embroiled in deistic claptrap, and is becoming boorish in his opposition to my atheism. I empathize with you entirely... And I may try and put across something like your words to him.

Hope it works but those zealots are extremist folks

Did that work?

Well said.

A good friend got infected with a virulent strain of the fundy bug some years ago. He harangued me tirelessly about my dismal future as a resident of "you know where " with great emotional tirades because ( he said ) he cared for me so much.
It reached a point where i took him by the scruff of the neck and booted him out of my house.
He simmered down for a bit but then would come back up to full volume. I asked him to stay away from me if that was all he could bring to the friendship.
He did for a while, then, the behaviour began to subside with just the occasional relapse every few months. We see each other less these days as i have relocated about 300 miles away. Now, i get flurries of emails several times a year with garbage conspiracy theories. Chemtrails, HAARP, Reptilians,the globalist agenda to cull the population, the flavour of the month antichrist, you name it. I would tease them all apart, sentence by sentence and reply with my "analysis". None of which he has ever replied to. Now he rings me fairly regularly and we talk about day to day stuff but nothing serious. He is lonely. I value the friendship and persist with it because i always see the wonderful warm hearted guy i know him to be and he is coming back somewhat, though torn, still captive to paranoid superstitious concoctions. I remain committed to " being there " for him with some boundaries.

It's SO sad that a good friendship must be strained and possibly destroyed over fables and stubbornness. I see it all the time though. I've not found churchies to be particularly good at dying.

I like your response. Let's hope it sinks in with your friend.

Return the favour ! Send him as much on atheism that you can find. It works, I promise you !