What an idiot! You are gorgeous!!!

Xoxo. You're awesome, thank you.

@CaroleKay ((( hugs ))) thank you xo

@RobLawrence I know too many people who do that. I can’t stand the behavior. Most uncouth.

I think you would enjoy the Cape May jazz festivals. Wonderful musicians. My piano lessons left me with a sincere appreciation for music...especially classical. I know what you mean about the genius.

lol

Lol! I hate that!

@CaroleKay ROFLMAO you know what I'm talking about!!!!

@CaroleKay for crissakes blow dry it if ya have to, don't put the "horse" away wet! LOL

I'm dying!

@CaroleKay LOL!!!!!

@RobLawrence LOL that you think you're immune. haha

@RobLawrence Absolutely not, "moldy crotch syndrome" can affect anyone. Ask your doctor if a blow dryer is right for you.

But it's kinda hard to check on yourself. I've always been very careful about closed areas being thoroughly dried after a shower.....

oh yeah ewwwww ACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

snakes & garlic! Maybe cat food smells! LOL

@RobLawrence how do you feel about your partners not shaving?

@RobLawrence I don't know, darling, I have never shaved my face. And weak chins are the worst!
I have, however, tried to keep my fingernails well groomed while still tackling gardening, washing dishes, doing laundry, and cleaning house, or even just having a life. It's a right bitch. One thing I can tell you though, I was in a two and a half year relationship with a man who was critical of every little imperfection, and I drove myself crazy trying to be his "Barbie Doll." But I was young. He certainly didn't bring enough to the relationship to make it worth my while, and yet I was expected to be tolerant of his many, many flaws. So when a man walks in with a list of petty demands the likes of manicured nails, perfect teeth, and what have you, I can only shake my head and mutter "life is too short." Good luck finding your perfect doll.

@Deb57 Wow....wtf? Where did HE say he was seeking a perfect little doll? He’s not your ex. Sheesh....

@Deb57 wow, drop some baggage...@RobLawrence only said shaving daily is tough. I find showering, washing hair and (especially) makeup every day onerous. LOL

@BlueWave His post came off as horribly shallow, as if a woman's character was not going to have any bearing in his capacity for attraction. And yes, having been cheated on after 17 years of marriage by a husband who suddenly decided to display that same level of superficiality, it definitely struck a nerve. Just wanted to point out, using a combination of indignation and sarcasm how unkind and unappealing it can be to hear that kind of pettiness from a man.

@Deb57 He was saying he doesn't like to shave every day! His OWN face. That's it. I don't blame him. I HATE shaving. I can't imagine having to do it every day.

You are reading stuff into it that is NOT even there. He is NOT your ex. You say it struck a nerve because of what YOUR ex did. Can you really not see that you went off on somebody and accused him of seeking a "perfect little doll" because he doesn't like to shave?

If you find you are in any way placing blame on anybody other than your ex for his selfish choice, devastating and life-changing choices, then you can and should remedy by whatever means necessary -- and not just double down justify your hostility toward an innocent man.

Thank you Deb, obviously, some people may not be taking in the comments or reading all the posts, and in the order that they occurred, but I am. ♥ I'm finished here. If I wanted to deal with this crap I'd still be arguing with the believers on the OKC site.

@BlueWave Although I am turned off by beards that make one appear as though they have eschewed all human contact for forty years, I have nothing against well trimmed beards, and even find many of them sexy. I was using the comment to point out how hurtful and unkind it can be to dismiss people for a minor flaw before bothering to discover who they are. I hope this helps you un-bunch your panties.

@RobLawrence Thank you for answering. Each person has their own personal taste and I didn't ask you that as an opening to put you down for having preferences. I think people should do what makes them comfortable with themselves. I also understand that people don't choose what turns them on OR off.

@Deb57 But that's not what you said or did. And, it's clear that you care not that you attacked another member for your own issues. Now you've triple-downed. Your additional insults don't help anything either.

@RobLawrence you do realize that we are all growing what our hormones gave us?

I like the idea of focusing on appealing things and valuable features

I find someone more attractive if they work with their hands. ♥

@RobLawrence The one has way more crooked than Robert Morse, but it's still cute as all get out, to me.
Dh's were nice, straight & long, he just wouldn't go to the dentist, like ever . Which is weird because we had the best health insurance ever. sigh. I let him be, he never smelled bad ever, in any way, until he was flat out dying.

ok physical turn off it would too big to wrap my arms around and not being able to touch my other hand.

Some hair around the nipple is related to high testosterone production and high level of sex drive. A lot of women just pluck them;

@RobLawrence

Really? We are from Dublin originally..but we live in Trim Co.Meath...?

@RobLawrence

Yes well..I thought it might be relevant.. I didn't see it coming either..I was rather surprised.. I should point out that there wasn't a lot of hair..maybe only half a dozen..but the location was the issue..

@RobLawrence, @ladyprof70

I didn't realise that ladyprof thanks.

God invented tweezers for a reason. ?

@BlueWave. Beauty is pain suppose...?

@RobLawrence

Yes..?? TMI ?️

I thought twice about nipple hair......!

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@RobLawrence yes I know that .

@Shelton Was trying to message you but you're a level 8 so I don't think it allows it. Wanted to say Hi and yes "strange smells indeed."

@RobLawrence sometimes beards hurt pussys

@RobLawrence Thank you for that info. I really had no idea.

@RobLawrence You complain about having to shave on a daily basis but cavalierly consign women to the nail salon. Oi! Double standard much?

@RobLawrence As a former nail tech, I have issue with everyone’s nails. I don’t care what sex they are. I don’t look at your clothes or shoes as much as your nails. It’s an indicator of how you care for yourself. I sometimes have long nails, sometimes short. Always manicured and polished. I have a certain time weekly set aside for nail care and fresh polish. At the very least they should be shaped and clean.

@RobLawrence it is an amazing place to,live....lots of history, festivals, nice beaches and a relaxed way of life...except in
July and August when the tourists are thick. Did I mention fabulous restaurants? ...and I like tourists...I just don’t go into Cape May City on weekends.