Both are equally as bad.

I just watched a video on You Tube this morning about this very subject. It was posted by a guy who travels frequently to Pattaya, Thailand on holiday (he's an unapologetic sex tourist, so I advise you not to watch the video if that offends you), and he was discussing the high rate of suicide amongst white male tourists who come to Pattaya, live in paradise until their money runs out and are then faced with the prospect of returning to the real world. Apparently, many of them take a flying leap off of a high rise building rather than return to the life they were living before they came to Pattaya.

It's the classic case of never had it, found it and then lost it.

Sometimes the thought of something is better than the reality.

Would it be worse still to get what you want more than anything else in the world and then find it doesnt make you happy. Asking for a friend.

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I sure would like to find out how bad it is to get what I want more than anything else in the world.