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People always tell me when I'm trying to meet someone " don't be weird just act natural be yourself".......... the problem is I feel like they're sending me mixed messages

Drsmash253 7 July 12
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I often tell people, "If I'm acting super weird around you, it's because I think you're hot."

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While trying to meet women my brother said I need to change to have success. I said, not going to happen. And I still was able to meet an amazing women. Go figure.

jab60 Level 6 July 13, 2018
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You didn't post a photo or write a profile so I don't see what women could use to evaluate you as a dating prospect. I usually block men who don't don't give information on themselves..they could be anyone.

I'm sorry but I do have photos and a complete profile I don't know what's wrong

I have even accumulated points for doing so

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When meeting people I often try to cautiously establish a rapport first so when controversial topics come up they might know more context of my position.

Sometimes I just charge straight into hot button issues so fragile shallow people get triggered and show themselves.

I guess it depends if I am in the mood for an argument. I am all for living authentically. I don’t think proceeding tactfully at times is a betrayal of that ideal.

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My mom always tells me "be your amazing wonderful charming self...but...tone it down and hide your crazy"

Do you want me to be myself or not, woman?

Everyone is weird on a first meeting.

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I see your point. People think you are weird and they say to "be your [weird] self."

Not exaaaaaactly, is really just meant to be a joke I actually stole it from Raj on The Big Bang Theory

I get it...I was also trying to be funny....certainly not insulting. @Drsmash253

@nicknotes none taken sir

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