We are here for you girlfriend.
I know sis..
Trying to send you some good energy, your brother also. I know it is not much, but I also know there is nothing I can do that will make a difference. I sincerely wish there was something I could do.
Aww sis... he looks so happy in this photo and he looks Too Young for cancer to take another. My aunt passed away last year to cancer. She was the first on my mothers side to go and we expected her to be the last of the sisters since she was the youngest and healthiest. I am not close to anyone in my family other than my sister and children, but my Aunt Marlene was the ONLY one (after the deaths of my grandparents) whom I remained close to. I have also battled cancer multiple times in my own life and my FIRST battle was age 15 when I was diagnosed with a rare form of THROAT cancer and i was a Health Freak at that age. I didnt even smoke and I was vegetarian since age 7. Ah well. Cancer came knocking again, next in my 20's and twice more since.
I understand his pain... and i understand your pain.
Take care Charlene and you should have my personal email. Hit me up if you ever have a late fucked up night and you need to chat. I am around late at night, early morning hours... the times when the pain seems to be the most active. Find me. If you don't have my addy, which you should, well im just going to messenger you my digits and my email here, again.
For real. I know i only speak to 3 other ppl from a.com, OUTSIDE OF a.com, and you have an Open Invitation to my real time life if ever you should need me... I Consider you a "Real Friend" not just an Internet A.com friend, which is why I extend my friendship to you Beyond this format.
Love you and hang in there. It will be tough. And i MEAN IT! If you NEED ME... I'm here... ~ari
Thank you sooo much..I will be intouch..I've already made escape plans for after he dies. It on the cape with a Gf from H.S..
I'm sorry to hear about your brother. I wish you well. Write me if you'd like someone to talk to. (((Hugs)))
T hank you SonderOpia..I appreciate it?
I'm so very sorry! Be sure to learn if there's anything he wants you to do or say to someone or music he wants to hear, etc. Giving him a very personal and ''good'' death will bring you comfort in years ahead! HOLDING YOUR HAND!
I've helped him through his battle from day 1, it's been a joy to do so..now at the end We still smile..and thank you for your suggestions..I appreciate them..
@Charlene As I said...holding your hand. You've been a good sister!
@LucyLoohoo I do my best to be a good sister, and thank you Lucy..?
Oh no (((Charlene))) I'm so sorry . What a sweet smile he has here.
All you can do is be there for him if possible.
((( hugs )))