Mostly true I would say.

However, sex is a team event...well for me it is a solo event but it is supposed to be a team event.
Blaming someone else is always convenient but ultimately your pleasure is up to you. After all nobody cares as much as about your feeling of fulfillment as you. I mean ideal partners should but lets be real...there aren't that many of those out there on either side for anyone. If you can't get a working strategy discussed and cleared up you probably need a new teammate. You can't dance for both partners if you don't know the steps

Partner selection is everything. I mean you can only be with someone that doesn't do it for you for so long...seems shallow but it really isn't

Straight women have less orgasms because their men are only concerned with their own orgasm.

I cannot be judge and defendant, can I?

No problems here. I always go for oral first unless requested to do something else. I love it!

We should not paint everyone with the same brush.....

no win subject for guys to comment on lmao

I ain't waiting for a guy to give me something I know how to give myself. If he shows up and we get to that point I have no hesitation in telling him what I need.

Hahaa! Some straight women must be clueless if they can't figure it out themselves, yes?

Hahaa! Some straight women must be clueless if they can't figure it out themselves, yes?

thank goodness for low T

I always loved to give oral sex.

of course there's a standard deviation of these results... I've always been known as an out lier

I eventually learned.

I will say this on this subject, this is something i love to do, even if i suck at it ,id rather suck at it then have the attitude of oh... ill never do that . Its disgusting. Thats an awful Attitude. Most women love to have oral sex performed on them. Honestly i have not come across to many that don't like it, in fact most love this idea!

Most of the respondents are guys on this, but I have a slightly different take. It may be true that we are clueless, but it would help if our partners would give us a clue. Help me learn your body. Teach me what gets your motor going. I'm sure I'm not in the minority in that the thing that gives me the most satisfaction is knowing that I'm giving my partner the most satisfaction possible. I'd love to know, beyond any doubt, that she's fulfilled.

I know it's tempting to say that guys don't actually want to learn. But I've been around many women who flippantly say, "Yeah, if he don't work immediately, I'm out. I ain't gonna teach him how to please me." I don't know how prevalent that attitude is, but I'm guessing it's not uncommon.

yes, because theyre SOoooooo forthcoming with the damn information. and it's not like you guys are just a wiz with the old johnson either. it's not tug o'war and that's not a doorknob.

For the record, oral sex is a staple for me (giving it to my partner, that is). It's my goal to please her, and my pleasure, while certainly strongly desired and enjoyed, is secondary.

That's an oversimplification. And I'm not saying you're entirely wrong, just that we have to take some responsibility in asking for what we want. And not settling for less.

pffft..