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Interesting topic here , i have 2 younger siblings, the sister is 13 yrs younger, the brother is 22. I really don't have much realtionship with them. I see them on occasion ,when my Dad ask me to join them for dinner at some restaurant . Hes still married to their mom , it really has not been much of a marriage for many years now so , nearly 10 yrs ago i stopped going to my dads house, cause i just didn't wanna deal with her any longer, she never accepted me, i suspect she has brainwashed the brother to stay away from me . But back to my original topicon this post . Several years ago my Sister bought a house with her now husband and still hasnt ever invited me over , and im not going to ask . I don't talk to her often either. My realtionship with my Dad has never been really good either . Just wondering what some of your thoughts here would be, i like this community here a lot! So my sister is almost 33 ,brother is 24 and im 46 ,my parents were divorced when i was around 2

ScienceBill72 7 July 28
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Just because you are related to someone, regardless of age, etc doesn't mean you have to like them..this applies to them as well. Make y our own life and your own circle!

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It all depends on what you want. Sounds like you don't care about them too much, but it also sounds like you want to be included. Decide what you really want first then work on what you can do about it.

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I suspect there is more of a back story, but I am not asking about that. I have been away from my family for over forty years. My siblings and my mom came to visit / My daughter and her kids came to visit. Now my brother's youngest wants to visit. I say, if you want a relationship with your sister, make the first move. Write, email, text or telephone. Go from there. Don't act on imagined pronlems. Draw a line under your past and start fresh.

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Decided decades ago , when a man I'd just began dating asked me , what I'd be looking for . Told him I'd prefer an orphan . You're close enough .

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