Interesting topic here , i have 2 younger siblings, the sister is 13 yrs younger, the brother is 22. I really don't have much realtionship with them. I see them on occasion ,when my Dad ask me to join them for dinner at some restaurant . Hes still married to their mom , it really has not been much of a marriage for many years now so , nearly 10 yrs ago i stopped going to my dads house, cause i just didn't wanna deal with her any longer, she never accepted me, i suspect she has brainwashed the brother to stay away from me . But back to my original topicon this post . Several years ago my Sister bought a house with her now husband and still hasnt ever invited me over , and im not going to ask . I don't talk to her often either. My realtionship with my Dad has never been really good either . Just wondering what some of your thoughts here would be, i like this community here a lot! So my sister is almost 33 ,brother is 24 and im 46 ,my parents were divorced when i was around 2
Just because you are related to someone, regardless of age, etc doesn't mean you have to like them..this applies to them as well. Make y our own life and your own circle!
I suspect there is more of a back story, but I am not asking about that. I have been away from my family for over forty years. My siblings and my mom came to visit / My daughter and her kids came to visit. Now my brother's youngest wants to visit. I say, if you want a relationship with your sister, make the first move. Write, email, text or telephone. Go from there. Don't act on imagined pronlems. Draw a line under your past and start fresh.