Just a note, I see a lot of people on this site almost desperately trying to date there is a chance that you might find some one by going on an online community I've seen people do it but if you truly want to find someone go find social activities where lots of people get together that have the same type of tastes, activities, or Hobbies as you. Actually interact with real people cuz as far as I can see when it comes to trying to find somebody it's a numbers game (and if you tell me that you don't have the time to do that then I would have to say that you do not have the time to be in a relationship cuz those are a hell of a lot more work) I think you will have a lot better chance of finding someone that way then doing it over the internet where most of the people that you interact with live a half a world away I've gotten to the point where I feel like it's like some kind of miserable job and I just have quit worrying about it anymore I think we're taught the illusion that there's someone for everyone and that true love is just like in the fairy tales and I hate to tell you folks but I don't think it exists I've seen way too many married couples that are just absolutely miserable with each other and it seems like a lot of them stay together because they're afraid of being alone and they don't know what else to do. I think we're looking for the pot of Gold at the end of the rainbow and neither the rainbow nor the pot exist.