Recently had a friend tell me excitedly that he met someone who is a medium and can channel 3 different spirits. I was able to say “I’m not sure I believe that, it’s an extraordinary claim, I’d need extraordinary evidence.” In the past I would just nod my head and change the subject or ask them to elaborate and then feel bad when I realize how emotionally invested they are in these beliefs. I love my friends, many of them have supernatural beliefs. More and more I feel like I can’t pretend that it’s fine. My friends trust me, and if I tacitly approve their supernatural claims by not questioning or correcting them, I am encouraging their error. My friends are mostly non-religious, but I get blinsided occasionally by the varied beliefs they collect and spring on me in the course of conversation. How do you navigate these conversations?
My relationships are based on my giving my opinion on whatever I see or hear that I deem to be detrimental and their appreciating hearing my observations.
I attempt to provide it with a proper delivery.
I don't nag and provide one or two word reminders if necessary.
I appreciate they're doing the same for me, keeping in mind that more than two words are a nag, and more than three is a hammering.
@kate40407 Scammer, Scammer, Scammer....
Be sure to tell them to keep their wallet in their pants!
Yes, these beliefs inevitably lead to action and affect decision making. That’s why I feel like they are not not just opinions, but truth-claims that should be questioned.