Agnostic.com

2 0

Recently had a friend tell me excitedly that he met someone who is a medium and can channel 3 different spirits. I was able to say “I’m not sure I believe that, it’s an extraordinary claim, I’d need extraordinary evidence.” In the past I would just nod my head and change the subject or ask them to elaborate and then feel bad when I realize how emotionally invested they are in these beliefs. I love my friends, many of them have supernatural beliefs. More and more I feel like I can’t pretend that it’s fine. My friends trust me, and if I tacitly approve their supernatural claims by not questioning or correcting them, I am encouraging their error. My friends are mostly non-religious, but I get blinsided occasionally by the varied beliefs they collect and spring on me in the course of conversation. How do you navigate these conversations?

Ian607 4 Aug 8
Share

Enjoy being online again!

Welcome to the community of good people who base their values on evidence and appreciate civil discourse - the social network you will enjoy.

Create your free account

2 comments

Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.

1

My relationships are based on my giving my opinion on whatever I see or hear that I deem to be detrimental and their appreciating hearing my observations.
I attempt to provide it with a proper delivery.
I don't nag and provide one or two word reminders if necessary.
I appreciate they're doing the same for me, keeping in mind that more than two words are a nag, and more than three is a hammering.

@kate40407 Scammer, Scammer, Scammer....

1

Be sure to tell them to keep their wallet in their pants!

Yes, these beliefs inevitably lead to action and affect decision making. That’s why I feel like they are not not just opinions, but truth-claims that should be questioned.

You can include a link to this post in your posts and comments by including the text q:150785
Agnostic does not evaluate or guarantee the accuracy of any content. Read full disclaimer.