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How long has everyone been single. For me it's been over 2 years.

Rhonda873 6 Jan 17
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It's been so long I'm a virgin...again!????????????

Lol

I went 8 years without while I was married. The first time post divorce was like the Madonna song.

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5 years cause I had shit to do lol

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Just over a year. Longest stretch in my adult life.

And now I'm finished! I got it all out of my system, and I'm glad it's over. People are overrated, relationships are overrated--books and ideas are where it's at.

I am not joking. Not even a little.

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thirty years. Didn't get married until I was 30. Married 25 years, then a divorce. Remarried after 2 years. Been married now for 18 years. Working on keeping it going.

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8 months for me

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Too god damn long which is part of the reason why I'm here.

Sethy Level 4 Jan 17, 2018
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hmmmm, split from ex wife in 1993, 3 relationships since, last one ended in 2004, so say 13 years this time around.

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I've been single a couple of years but alone all my life

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10 1/2 years.

Iffy Level 5 Jan 18, 2018
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Almost four years.

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I've been single now for about a year. My longest was about three years.

Gohan Level 7 Jan 18, 2018
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Sixty-nine years.

skado Level 9 Jan 18, 2018
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I've been divorced since 2009. I've had a LTR post divorce. So totally single for over 5 years.

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1 year and 16 days...I broke up with my last girlfriend on new years 2017....she wanted to still party and I am bored with the party lifestyle, plus it gets in the way of my interests.

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Since stable relationship 7 years, dalliances since then, but knew from the get go they weren't going anywhere.

Kimba Level 7 Jan 18, 2018
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Going on 4 months now.

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as in unwed or no partner at all?

I take it to mean no partner. If I am in a relationship then I am not single.

I thought single meant not married. @HippieChick58

@skado gray zone hence the questin

I took it as having not committed to anyone seriously, but various fwb relationships between my last big deal and now.

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I prefer to not keep track at this point. It's less depressing that way.

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Last time I even kissed a woman September of 2013. Might happen again one day when I am old and in a nursing home. LOL

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It has been nine months now! Oh well, I actually thought that one was the one, the true one! Life does like to play funny tricks upon us and change our direction(s) with or without our inclination! Have been divorced since 1989! Met a few along the way! The last one made me more skeptical and weary about relationships!

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Just recently divorced though have been separated for 18 months before.

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5-6 years... not the longest

godef Level 7 Jan 18, 2018
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10 years

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Going on 4 years. I'm happy but it would be nice to have a female companion. This is kinda the reason why I don't have that companion.
First I got a divorce from my wife after 22 years of marriage. I said in the last year she needed to do something about the craziness. I moved out and she became a stalker. 3 months later after I moved out she was hospitalized in the sycophantic ward for a little over a month. First gal after moving out of 6 months was a message therapist. Me her at a restaurant. 6 months later I come to find out the she was doing her client's because gonorrhea just doesn't pop up after 6 months.
Second gal come to find out after 6 months was doing meth. Then she proceeded to take my daughters identity to buy a car, racked up a credit card she applied for and got with her id. My daughter and I went to court several times for different felonies that was brought up to her by us. Then come to find out that she had 5 or 6 felonies prior to meeting me for identity fraud. Ok one and half later she was out of jail. Unknown to us until we got summoned to court which was a surprise that she was living less then a mile from me and 4 more identity fraud case against her and one stole jeep.
Third gal I stayed with for two years. After 6 months again I find out she abused prescription drugs. I told the parents and we came up with a plan to help their daughter out. Everything was good for about a year after she got out of rehab but about 2 or 3 months after that year ended I and her children was noticing that she was acting odd. And come to find out she was buying other peoples prescription drugs because they wouldn't prescribe anything over tylenol basically.
So I've had a shit storm for about 5 or 6 years. I have a trust issue and I really can't see me being with someone or even going out on a date because all I'm thinking about is what shit storm do you have for me. I hope to get over it and trust again but I'm more geared to being alone till my death. I have friends but I'm not into dudes. Lol.

Prhjr Level 5 Sep 25, 2018
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