It seems a bit early to start looking into that...but since women over 62 have been the fastest-growing demographic for HIV-positive diagnosis for over a Decade now, it is prudent to be safe than sorry! Random men are the biggest "pollinators" causing the problem, sorry......

DANGER, WILL ROBINSON, DANGER!!

I've found things , over the years , to work in the other direction . I find men enthusiastic about having sex , but can't be bothered to get tested for AIDS . This in a county where they were providing free AIDS testing . I'm clean and plan to stay that way .

Has she asked you for money to help pay for anything? That's a sure sign of a scam. Otherwise, sounds like she's just a little loopy, perhaps had a bad experience with meeting someone in similar circumstances.

Good call. Sounds suspicious

You should have asked her for a psych. eval!

Unreasonable requests as I see it .

Good grief! I understand being careful but that's not much of a way to break into a potential new relationship. You did the right thing.