I just received an invite to an upcoming Death Cafe. Was sent by my local Humanist chapter.
I have never heard of such a thing.
Anyone have experience with them?
[deathcafe.com]
Looks interesting! I see they have or had three in my area.one at a funeral home.
I go to it quite often. It is extremely interesting. Discussions about life, death, honoring transitions, fears or no fears, beliefs traditions surrounding death. Death is so feared and covered up, and so full of superstition that it is great to discuss this part of our lives. I have met several atheists, agnostics, pagans, and Christian's there, but religion itself, is not part of the discussion. Just our ideas about what happen when we die.
@AmiSue it seems like they have been from around 30s to my age, ( I'm almost 72) but sometimes people come and go. I miss them from time to time, and in the summer, people go away on weekends, so that age range can change from week to week.
It sounds interesting. I enjoy discussion groups. Besides getting me thinking about the subject at hand and think of differing opinions, it's is a good way to meet people.
Death usually is not discussed in depth in social circles. Maybe it would be a good thing to do? Also, when talking about death we must also talk about life which is really the point.
I have heard of this. As a member of the Humanist and a big supporter of Death with Dignity I am all for it. The only way we will know of our choices is to share information with others. After writing a DwD letter to all 3 of our local papers our pharmacist thanked me. He said the major problem with the states DwD program is so few people even know it exists.
Please attend.
You need to go and tell us what it's like. You are the guinea pig, I'm sorry.
That's true. Them's the rules.
Interesting. Definitely better to discuss with Humanists.
I had no idea these places even existed. I think it's great. Might even look one up. Thanks for bringing it to my attention.
I’d cry the entire time.
@PalacinkyPDX Well that’s good. Maybe if they had a dog we could pet while we talk. But I’d hate to depress the dog.
@PalacinkyPDX Oh I’m not. I have my own resources for that. Just that if I’m in a group talking about death I’ll automatically cry.
maybe you have already died and this is how you find out
My dude, did you have to say that? I wanted to go, now I'm not so sure lol ?
@DoctoralZombie existential angst we all need more of that
Sounds like the English Victorian era where we had Memento Mori as so many people died at a young age because of the filth in the streets and unclean rivers they had marble baby arms and hands on the mantelpiece and lots of black cloth on the table legs etc it was sort of a celebration of death and people went into mourning for huge amounts of time
I speak of death quite often. I’d probably fit in well there
How did you get on the radar for that sort of privilege! Just get lucky?
@AmiSue : I enjoy the Humanist Sunday morning lectures. The Humanists I have met are usually good and independent thinkers. I encourage you to get out and meet them!
I had caught this on the news a short time back. Think they intend for it to be easier to talk to acquaintances about your death issues. buried/cremation your last will and testament etc. It is supposedly for most people easier to talk to strangers than friends and family about death issues.
This is the first I've heard of it. I would be interested to attend if it were happening near me.