So, when dating, how have some of you handled disclosing the fact that you are not a believer? Have you found it better to be up front on the first or second date, or do you wait until it gets more serious and hope you have not wasted each other's time? I am interested in hearing your stories and thoughts.
If it will become an issue, it is better addressed early.
I listen very carefully Before the first date, then pursue what they say.
at first i was thinking, how come this never came up? how come this was never an issue? then i realized, the few blind dates/dating service dates i ever had went to badly, there never WAS a second date. anyone else i ever went out with was someone i knew, however well or not well, in another context, so we already at least knew a little about each other. if religion had been important to the other party, it would have come up and the date would not have happened. religionists don't stay in the closet!
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Life is short. As I believe a positive relationship should be based on mutual respect and honesty. As an atheist, I can not respect a person who bases their belief system on the dishonest premise that faith (belief without evidence) is a methodology to determine (Truth) things that are testable and demonstrated to be correct with evidence. I make it very clear I do not tolerate people that value faith over facts. Good to get that in the open before even contemplating going on a "date". Why waste your/their time?
didnt come up till my ex was pregnant wasnt a biggie i went along with baptism as it meant nothing to me but something to her neither tried to convert the other and all 3 kids are atheists due more to the fact we answered any questions about anything without resorting to denigrating the others beliefs
I, more or less, did the same thing you did and even did not object to my Jewish wife sending the kids to Sunday school and temple. I went myself for a while and considered becoming Jewish but it ultimately seemed just as hocus-pocus as Christianity. My wife was never extremely religious religious but she did have many fond memories of time spend with friends and cousins at temple, religious activities, and Jewish holidays. .Also, like you, both of our kids grew up to be atheist.