The truth is, it's very very hard to live in an extremely sexualized society as a black man- a society whose brains rotates on sex 24/7. A society that forgets that there's life beyond sexualised morals. People can and should relate to each other in a friendly way without talking about sex or expecting sex from other parties.
Why do you say that? What does being a black man have to do with living in a sexualized society? It's your mindset that makes it difficult for you, not your skin color.
Do you know how many whites called the police on me in my work place for saying hello to their children in a place full of people? For no crime committed, but because they,in their tiny brain think that am about to molest their kids in a public space where I happen to work? All this is a result of being black and that's one example.
@m0752532706 oh OK, put that way I understand. Your post is kinda general...
@Cutiebeauty understood. Thanks
From what I have seen the places where people are most open about sex/sexuality are the places where it is not as much of an issue.
Where I come from,sexual issues are private matters, I see the difference between US and Africa, sexualized society still have issues with sex, so you and you know the challenges facing US.