I just want to be able to message her.
Just do it, stand for yourself...or something like that
If she does not want your attention, and you persist, you are a stalker!
It's a numbers game. It's luck. It's keeping it simple. It's women, so maybe it's their mood at that specific time. Just do it.
I was making a joke. I wanted to message someone, but I didn't have the necessary points to reach level 2, because I hadn't received the points for my photo posts. I wasn't apprehensive. I just lacked the points for level 2. Is this like Scientology, in which you never reach the highest level?
No. I zipped through the first five levels without even trying. My current level is like the darned Twilight Zone, though.
Message her! She might not reply, and if she does, you've avoided rejection. If she doesn't, you've avoided the mess of spending time with somebody who doesn't like you.
Until you've taken the time to know and love yourself, dating is a minefield of wasted time and hurt. You'll be afraid, afraid she might find out who you really are and reject you.
Once you've taken the time to know and accept yourself, dating is really a numbers game - reaching out until you find a person at your level.
Good luck!
??? What is stopping you?
Didn't have enough points for level 2. Now I'm level 3! Look at me Ma, top o' the world!
Double points for the first comment
Smart