I've been bailing my brother out of his financial situations for three years, like a dumb ass because I'm naive i guess and when i finally stop and I'm suddenly an a-hole. my violent brother can't even get a job because he's been in jail two times, one for breaking the restraining order and two for attacking his new girlfriend. so pretty much he's the a-hole now he's married to a woman from Puerto Rico and her anger towards me is hotter then the bottom of a volcano one time she was going to hit me with a baseball bat just because i was whining about living under her roof on facebook and her fat son ratted me out.
You are living with them...is your "help" actually rent?
"Crazy" (just below) is undoubtedly right....people will resent you for being good to them and they'll make you pay for it! Get away from there! Seriously! Do it! Leave them to their own futures and go!
Why are you living with your brother?? Move out and get your own life.
I don't he lives 2 or three towns away