Maybe discuss your prior conversation with him and your assumption of the plans. Maybe he can explain where the misunderstanding was. If not...Delete, Move on and block if needs be.

??? The instant anyone on this website is crude, rude or lewd, or treats me with disrespect, I block them, and/or flag them to the admin. if appropriate.

As for misbehaving men not on this website, I block/delete them from my social media and phone, and never contact them again.

He's somebody else's problem now.

Did you meet him on the internet? I am constantly astounded by the stories I hear from women I talk to. We're not all assholes.

I'm sorry to hear about that. That is so very rude. I don't know how people can do that to someone. A person's emotions are not something to play with. It hurts too damn much to do that. Forget him, you deserve someone a whole lot better than him. I sincerely hope you find him soon.

I think that it's becoming a trend and it has a term too: cushioning or benching. Meaning that people are afraid of getting hurt so they keep people around them as option 1 or 2...

I feel your pain. I had a very similar thing happen to me when I was in my 20s. Still kind of stings

block his number and on facebook!

i hope you have ghosted him pricks like that deserve to be dropped faster than a red hot poker with no explanation given .take care and good luck

You know what? I don't understand people who do this kind of thing. It's like... saving you for the backup plan in case the first choice doesn't work out. What a load of crap.

Dump this one - and make a decision to no longer tolerate such bullshit - from anyone.

You are way better off without him, he is a complete and utter asshole. It's not your fault, it's his.