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I would be interested to hear about people's experiences on the job market. I interviewed for a job on September 5th and just yesterday received a verbal job off (official letter to be signed today or tomorrow). During that time, I had two in-person interviews, a call for references, and lots of nervous wait time.

I wish all those job-seekers out there luck!

orange_girl 8 Sep 25
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I am a retired RN. After my husband died in a car wreck I continued to work for a while but than I decided to quit after I felt the need to take over our firewood business. I felt the need to take over business because good help is hard to find sometimes and its very expensive to run a business when people don't respect your property. Its a great business and I enjoy the work,( no, I don't cut the wood) but I see that things may not continue the way they've always run. If I go back to nursing, a job I've done for 30 years, I would have to go back to school to do the same work. At 61 I don't think this is an option because the rate of tuition is out there and I don't want to retire with that kind of debt. Frankly, I'm burnt out on nursing and nurses don't have the freedom to be with patients like we used to have. Corporate America wants to micro manage everything and its not a glamorous profession like they want you to think. With the media bantering on about how great the job market is it seems all these jobs are minimum wage with no benefits. Good luck to those searching.

@orange_girl I'm glad you had a good experience. Nurses really can make a big difference in the outcome of patients. It gets really hard to spend time with people because hospitals tend to under staff and dump more work on to nurses.They really are Jack's of all trades.

@orange_girl those drugs do come in handy

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Congrats and good luck in your new job. My daughter has been looking for 5 months now. She’s had interviews, sometimes multiple interviews and knows she’s done well. She has the experience and smarts for the positions she’s applied for but no offers. She thinks it’s because of her weight. She is a short little thing and is overweight which does not impact her job performance. If she gets an explanation it’s usually some excuse about deciding to go a different way.

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My adult son has been trying to find a job for over six year, and no one will hire him. Unfortunately, he has Aspergers which most employers see as a disadvantage. Even Walmart and the grocery stores pass on him.

At age 27, this in itself makes it more difficult for him to find work as employers want to see a work history by then. It really pisses me off that you need experience to get a good job, however no one wants to take a chance on you to get that experience.

He could gain experience and build a resume by doing volunteer work, working for a relative, or starting his own side business selling items, or selling services such as mowing lawns, cleaning up debris from yards, etc.

@birdingnut In the area where I live employers don't see that as "real" work. We're about to move to a larger town in a few months and we're hoping he has better luck there.

@kiramea People with Asperger's can make excellent employees because of their obsession with detail and ability to happily work in boring jobs.
Their supervisors would have to know not to harass them, and to let them do their work in peace.

@birdingnut My son and I are well aware of that. It's getting potential employers to understand the benefits of hiring him that's the problem.

@kiramea Hmm..maybe you could google a support group for Asperger's and ask family members in the groups to recommend autism-friendly places to work, or run a google search places who hire the handicapped in your town.

You're moving anyway, but a family friend who was on the auttism spectrum made a great UPS driver and earned a good salary. My ex was obviously on the Asperger's spectrum yet was an airline pilot and design engineer. He was like a zombie, though, and you had to tell him everything, only wanted to chop wood when not working.

Had the same problem with my daughter. She never handled picture taking well and an idiot stuck a camera in her face and then felt threatened when noel knocked it across the room. She lost her job and the idiot kept hers. Aspergers is a rough life.

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Congrats. That was an excrutiatingly long wait, I'm sure. I'm glad I've been out of the job market for some time now. Things used to be a lot easier. No mine fields of twitter, Facebook or other social media. Newspaper ads or employment agencies were the source of job leads.

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I am done with work. Since the newspaper job died i had to work crappy jobs with crapy bosses. After i got sick my leg got worst. I am unhirable so waiting on ssd. I am going to study, music, photography and garden. As i got older harder to find or keep

@orange_girl i am lucky , i planned i work till 62 but oh well. I am liking not working. Hope you do not have to work too long after 65

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Congratulations. Job searching is awful. Hope the new job is all that you wanted and more.

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In the same boat.
One offer, wanting an immediate approval
Two more interviews, waiting.
Two more with assessments done.
And two more interviews this week.

Good luck

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I remember a job my ex got over 20 years ago. The offer came 2 months after the interview. Crazy. My son has been looking for work for a month and has had one interview and one offer which he declined. I will be on the market soon myself. It's a hard time, good luck.

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Wishing you well in your job hunt. It's a jungle out there, that's for sure 😀

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From what I've heard that is kinda the way it goes today.
Best wishes

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Good for you! That’s less than a month. Awesome! My husband just lost his position of 13 yrs. he is on week two…

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Congratulations!

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Good luck! If it doesn't workout for you, then try indeed.com for jobs in your area.

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I lost my job when Radio Shack went under, and got divorced. Spent six months looking and on one interview it was me and a 22 or 3 year old. I dressed nicely with a tie and he had a t-shirt and jeans. He got fifteen minutes and I got five. Finally went to work under the AARP Foundations Senior Community Service Program and was placed in the Career Source. The Center Manager liked my work ethic and customer service skills and told me to apply for an opening. I got the job and was in it for six months and they changed management companies and the let me go. Center manager called and told me had put my application back in for an open position and got the job, again. Just got cut in hours but still employed. See people every day looking and looking, if the jobs creators are creating I don't see anything but minimum wage jobs that go no where!

BillF Level 7 Sep 25, 2018

@orange_girl they base the unemployment numbers only on the number of people who are collecting unemployment insurance payments.

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as far as you r experience, congratulations! i didn't mean to be completely negative.

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i need a new job. i'm in a predicament that doesn't provide for that right now. to make it worse, we were told we were moving offices (an hour and a half commute and not cllose to mass transit as i was using) ... i signed a car note. our office is not moving and we are not getting the differential in pay for the added tolls, gas, etc. i waited until we were a month away from the move to even look at cars. i feel like i'm drowning and may have to get a part time job just to facilitate my full time gig. it's absurd.

@orange_girl i know people have it worse than i. or i have it better than some. but yeah, it's so discouraging that i'm working sometimes 12 hour days and receiving shut off notices. (and i have a pretty good job. it's just the cost of living is not always reasonable. again, i don't mean to be negative. my family always thought i had it easy and was flush with money. (i was struggling, but i was the one who would provide gas money or buy their kids lunch) i struggle man. i say i have a job for fancy dog food and health insurance, but honestly, i am not sure if i stopped working to breathe and look for a more compatible job, i would be without utilities. i certainly do not have a cushion of savings. I'm grateful for what i have because i haven't had a whole lot. Good Luck with your new endeavor - you ern every thing that comes to you!

@orange_girl 20 percent? My rent is fully half my income.

@orange_girl I just rented out a house. The management agency would not accept a tenant if the rent I was asking was more than 28% of their Gross monthly income. This is in Florida, in the US, but it may be different in different places.

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Temp agencies can be a really good path to a lasting career. You get your foot in the door, wow them with your skills and attitude (maybe make them laugh too) and lots of times they will take you on for a position. (If you even want it) The reason they need a temp in the first place is because they have an open position.They can interview you while you are working. It worked for me!

@orange_girl Congrats on your position too. I hope it's everything you were looking for.

They can, but they won't. They want temps because then they don't have to pay benefits.

@memorylikeasieve Sometimes. But you just have to temp for the right company. I wouldn't want to work for a company that acted like that anyway. I prefer small firms, they may not be as secure, but they are generally more personable places to work.

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Congratulations!
They said on BBC that Trump cutting corporate taxes has created more US jobs, but that cutting taxes is increasing the national debt, putting the US in danger of a future crash worse than that in 2008.

But for now, there are more jobs. Hard to tell what will happen in reaction to the trade war, but so far it's not affected the US as much as the countries opposing the US.

our company laid off two departments ... those ex-coworkers have been struggling in the philly market. i'm not sure the new jobs that have been created by the corporate tax cuts personally. i think the unemployment rate may have dropped because people timed out of benefits. (there is a finite amount of extensions you can get here in pennsylvania.)

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I'm pretty sure I got my job because I made my supervisor laugh first thing in the interview. The first thing she said was "I don't know if you're aware or not but we are a collection agency." I said "I knew that and applied anyway." That was Wednesday and I started on Monday. It'll be 5 years in October.

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Congrats!!!

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I drive for Doordash and that's all I've been able to do for a while. I count myself fortunate that I have other means of support. My housemate and close friend, however, has been job searching for a few years, now. She went to school to get a biomedical cert only to find there was no work available in that field despite their telling her otherwise. She has an advocate and still no luck. She has no criminal record, no illegal drugs, no bad job history, is throwing apps and resumes into the uncaring void every day. But, well, she's 43, mentally ill, overweight, and not 'conventionally attractive.'. I am just furious at this employment meat market.

Sorry to drag the thread down, but this is my experience.

@orange_girl in NY and in FL had trouble and i do suspect it was age. When i shortened my resume and did not include a date for my degree i got more calls.

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Sounds like you have accepted that verbal offer. Congrats!

I have worked in state government for the last 10 years so I haven't been in the job market for a while. That said, I HAVE tried to promote within state service and that has been rather frustrating. I already have promoted to a certain level and my next step would be a management job. I meet the state qualifications for it and am on the appropriate hiring list, but I'm finding what I believe to be a perfect storm of age discrimination, gender discrimination, and "good 'ol boy/girl" networks all working against me. As with any "union shop" hiring offices are legally required to jump through certain hoops (advertise publicly, screen applications and schedule & hold interviews), but at the end of the day, they seem to already know who they want before any of that activity takes place. And that sucks! I experienced the same thing when I worked as a bottled water delivery driver for a family owned (but unionized) company while "competing" for route foreman positions.

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Nice work! I haven't really looked in a few years except for my partner, and she's in a very specific field, so don't feel like it would be representative. Good question though, I'm also interested to hear others experiences lately.

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All I can say is that if you look wishing to find then you will

@orange_girl i'm ginna wish i can pay my car note.... That'll work, right?

@orange_girl i have not read this book. I will look into it. But yeah, wishing does pay bills. And working in this economy is tough.

@orange_girl wow at least I can say that I started the conversation. You are entitled to disagree, that's fine. What I am saying is that I have always found the job I worked myself to prepare for. Nothing is free, we want reward but we have to do what it takes to make it happen. The specifics on how to execute and/or how to do it will vary from person to person depending on several factors. Anyhow, if my intent to help motivate anyone doesn't work then no harm done in trying. This is not a debate, you don't have to convince me or anyone. It's called a comment, that's all.

@orange_girl if you read your original post, starts saying "I would be interested to hear about people's experience in the job market". My comment was focused on the mind set required now a days to find a job because it's hard enough as it is, that's the part where it helps to really want it. Anyhow, the conversation took the turn towards "social justice" that wasn't part of the question. It's your cake, you cut it any way you like. Cheers

@orange_girl is the opposite true then? "If you look wishing NOT to find then you won't?"

@orange_girl the last sentence in your original post use the word wish......is it good for you but not for me? See, it's just semantics

@orange_girl it wasn't a contest, neither I am trying to win. Just stating the facts. I know, no one likes that.

@orange_girl oky doky, now you win... congratulations? ?

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At my company you apply online and once they get all your info you are called in for an interview. If everything is in order and they need someone you will most likely get the job. In my own experience it was well over a month before I got the phone call to come in and interview.

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