I prefer to start with where would you like to eat? What are your hobbies? What do you value in a relationship? Those types of questions. After we have a relationship, then we can discuss shaving. Facial hair? Men have every excuse for not shaving and it usually mirrors womens reasons as well. So tit for tat.

Thank goodness I am older woman, I just cannot get my head round the fact that you have been asked that by men. I can definitely say that when I was in the market for dating it would never have been considered an appropriate question for any man to ask. Of course the fashion for depilation is a relatively recent thing....and after reading up on the subject I believe the porn industry has been the driving force behind this. There are actually good reasons why we grow hair around the pubic area, and those who shave or wax the area completely are putting subjective aesthetics over nature’s protection of our reproductive organs. The hair is there for our good and is not actually surplus to requirement.

Trimmed is nice. I am not a fan of pubic shaving. A man once told me it made women look younger. OK, like what? Maybe 10. People are crazy!

You have to understand if you're raised in a barn by inbred parents and your last relationship was with a dairy cow, asking a woman a question like "are you shaved?" is considered thoughtful and romantic.

I've always been able to work with whatever I found down there.

Jerks..the nerve of asking a woman that.
First hint of guy being crude, lewd, or rude to me for any reason, I ghost them. Depending on the means available, I block/delete/report them.

If men ask such a question, you'll be offended, won't you. Isn't it a question that borders on indecency,?

Landing strip or Yeti?

True. They are just not MY pubic hairs.