For years you try to guess what she wants. Turns out it's not even you, who was supposed to guess!
Did you try asking?
@beerhungry oh I hate that..& it goes both ways. I learned a long time ago to state what I want but don't hold my breath to get it. Then again, I seem to be completely oblivious to flirting ...all the while thinking, "gee, wasn't he nice. He must have 1 lucky girl."