Hii, I don't have a experience like this, but believe me, I will definitely change ur thinking about this problem

When I was in your situation, the forums dedicated to this on MarriageBuilders.com were extremely helpful. ESPECIALLY if you want to and are willing to try to stay married.

Sounds like another one looking for something for nothing. Only thing I know of, is to forgive yourself for caring for the A-hole, look deep and see if theres any value in continuing to invest your life in him, and move on accordly. Good luck with your decisions

I am sorry to hear about your husband, i don't know why people cheat on their partner. That's irritating

It happened to me. We were actually in a good place because things were moving in the right direction after some positive changes. It came out of the blue and demoralized me. We tried to make it work, but I couldn't deal with the lost if trust and the potentially dangerous situation she put me in. I eventually ended it as it had become unhealthy. It was a true loss and I hurt more from the time invested and the blatant slap in the face it was to me.

My dad gave me the whole Biblical spiel about marriage when mine ended. Mine was an emotional cheat too, not a physical one, but the trust was still broken. She allegedly broke it off, but I don't want to be in a relationship where I feel like I have to check the other person's phone. I don't want to be that guy.

That said, everyone is different, love can overcome many things. Whether you reconcile or not, I hope you find happiness.

I have been through that experience as well. Tis not easy. Of course my husband had cheated on just about everyone he ever dated, so I should have seen that coming. That being said, I have a very close friend who went through this, and they're still married. They worked it out. It wasn't easy, and there was therapy involved, but they made it.

It happened to me some years ago. Absolute worst thing I went through because I never saw it coming. I couldn't get past it but in retrospect, it was an emotional cheat. Not a "whorish" one. And I later realized I played a role in that. Had I seen it then the way I see it now, I could have forgiven it, and wish I did. But everyone's situation is different. If you can't trust him anymore, or if he's "a dog", you no longer have what you had and may as well move on. Us atheists know we only live once and it's our duty to be happy for ourselves. Good luck.

Hi, I ready to get rid u from all hypertension, because of human life is very special

Sorry you had that experience.

Rather sure you are far from alone.

Brings to mind a study broadcast about a decade ago on NPR

The question this study was attempting to address is: are married men more or less faithful then their wives? To judge the honesty of wives, they asked the husbands if their children (born while married) were their genetic offspring of their husbands. All couples in the study and their children were genetically tested for paternity. Of the couples that asserted the children were the offspring of the married husband, The numbers were not good. I do remember England had the worst results with less then half of claimed children actually being the offspring of the husband. The United States were better but not by much. The conclusion of this study was the ratio infidelity of married men to married women was roughly equal.

Sorry about your situation

Yep and he is now married her. My children basically hate me. My daughter even posted on FB, 'thank goodness I have a lovely new Mum'. (He had told them loads of lies about me). I have a tentative relationship with my boys and a new relationship but to be honest I felt destroyed.

Are there children from your marriage? Kids are far more resilient than we believe,they may have a feeling things were not right between you two.