K...been dead for a year and a half since my beloved died...have met some woman through that period so a year and a bit has passed .......and have now met my soul mate..she accepts that I am a a musician have long hair and a beard...so yes it can happen...she loves me for what I am and what I do and she wants to get involved in my shit...music wise..so wow it can happen to anyone....
When things must happen, they simply happen. Great to hear that. All the best for you!
How many soul mates can a person have? I'm married to my soul mate - though I hate the phrase - should something happen to her - I likely wouldn't get remarried but if I did - that person wouldn't and couldn't be my soul mate. If this doesn't work out - will the next woman you meet be your soul mate? I'm not trying to insult you but if it were me - I wouldn't classify a replacement for my beloved as my soul mate.
I have to thank you for being so honest in this climate of changeability of life and love and all that love can consume or contain within in a given time and place ...and to be honest there are always going bits in my life that are going to be fuck you moments that are totally explainable in my life and this has been one of them....so smile and suck it up because I am happy and she is happy that we met....calll it whatever the fuck you want but is is and forever shall be special to me ....love you....lol#
@Dragoria You wrote a paragraph but didn't say anything - as long you were impressed that's all that matters. I could drag this out in terms of your use of the phrase "soul mate" but I'm already bored and really don't care. If your wife was your soul mate and your new partner is your soul mate - which is or was true? Can people have a dozen soul mates? Whatever - do your thing .
@SeaGreenEyez Yawn!
Losing someone you love is never an easy thing to get through. Opening the next chapter in your life takes some time. Glad you your starting!
I'm very happy to hear that you have found someone! My girlfriend died 7 years ago and I still miss her. I have to be careful not to accept someone who is less than what I need. I have a couple of times to my own detriment. Hope it works out for you friend!
The right place,at the right time,me thinks.The loss of a spouse leaves a "Hole in your soul",new love tries to heal it,but the void is covered under a thin,easily torn off scab.It may be a while before you and this ne Woman truly become a couple,the fear of having it repeat is strong.
Pleased to hear you've met someone that you have a real connection with , wishing you both a long and happy journey in life together.
Nice uplifting story for us this morning. Good wishes to you and your new love.
I'm happy for you and hopeful for myself. Thanks for posting.