i think it's not a matter of making up one's mind (although there are people who feel "other" and they HAVE made up their minds; you just don't happen to like what they decided). i think it's a matter of their feeling that their gender is none of your business. if someone is here for the community that someone might not care to reveal his/her gender. why should s/he? whose business is it unless they're looking for a date?

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It seems a lot of people have no idea what you're talking about. I do. I have noticed a lot of apparent women are choosing "other" as their gender.

"Here for community"

LOL

Nature is not perfect. In the womb every single one of us started out as female. At a certain point of pregnancy, the mother's body will bathe the fetus in hormones which change the vagina to a penis. I think it's quite possible that people are born into the wrong sex ,it happens all the time.

Ironically, your username is "Secretguy". What's the secret?

Very black and white thinking, and a tad obnoxious.

Go Ducks!

ok Ive waited and waited ...can you please explain jebus to me? afraid to say jesus? someone might think you believe in him? try schmymie

Of all the things to be concerned with,this does not seem worth stressing over

Why does this concern you? I don't see how it could possibly affect you personally.

I think you mean "other". I don't care if people who are not here for dating want to conceal their gender. That's their business, not mine. If I were looking to date I'd just ignore people being coy about something as fundamentally important as gender or sexual orientation, but I wouldn't lose sleep over it.

Lmao