It is important during the ending of a relationship to think about not only what one is going to lose, but of future possibilites yet to be realized.
I think it's important to ask yourself what you learned.
So by the meaning of losing I take it that you were dumped? It’s ok like you said future possibilities are yet to be realized.
And that’s way better than crying and masturbating
Hmmm...
@CuriousCreature How can you possibly have an ex wife? You look far too young
@CuriousCreature Well then my apologies and the best for the both of you then.