The nose knows...yours must be very finely tuned....but you made some important observations.

@nicknotes part hound dog about some things yes. I don't want damp funks myself LOL

Good advice...

I have a mustache. Had one since I was about 30 years old. I couldn't do without it.

I had a trimmed beard when I met my late partner. It was starting to gray so I used a beard dye. Big mistake, the chemicals gave me a bad burn. She said it made my face look narrow (I have a long face) so I shaved it. She was right (as always).

@MissKathleen I let it go shortly after we were married. As I said she was right, again. How about a little stubble. That seems to be the it thing. After my accident I was told women like men with scars and stubble??

@MissKathleen I hear you. Perhaps if I get lucky enough to get close enough to a woman for a kiss I should ask her about her skin sensitivity first. Good to know (seriously).

I used to have a beard for many years. But when it turned gray I shaved it off. @CoastRiderBill

I'm just giving you an opportunity to skip the politics and think about human relationships.

@nicknotes if you have to ask the question online, you’ve already lost.

Many people appear to be interested...@Rob1948

@nicknotes I would not know. I don’t keep tabs on you.

I don't expect you to keep tabs...if you did I would be concerned. @Rob1948

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@Bigwavedave If you don't appreciate her mind, she won't care to give you her body... unless she hasn't much of a mind.

@Wildflower I always only take about their mind, but they always asked me if those pants made their ass look big. Just saying its confusing. No one ever asked me if they were too smart..

@Bigwavedave how can anybody be too smart? I would kill for a few more IQ points.

@Bigwavedave Just stick with the less "smart" ones, you'll be ok.

That's a great answer. An intelligent woman is very attractive.

@Bigwavedave they never will ask if they're too smart. many women were told, when they were girls, NOT to be smart, not to show that they're smart, always let the boy win, always let the boy think everything is his idea. why would a woman raised like that ask if she was too smart? she's been told not to call ANY attention to her intelligence, to suppress and hide it. her ass is another story.

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@genessa that's truly sad.

@Bigwavedave it's beyond sad. it's disgusting and maddening. i was lucky. i was never told that. i was told i could be whatever i wanted to be. my folks messed me up in OTHER ways but not that way!

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Yes...I see your point.

^^This. If brushing your teeth regularly, showering a fews time a week, combing your hair, wearing clean clothes, and standing up straight are not "you", then you're not for me. And that's not just for men, either-- that's for anybody.

@stinkeye_a Very well said!

Good observation....being someone else rarely lasts.

@nicknotes Bingo.

Excellent choice...@Amzungu2

That's a great answer. Men expect women to be well groomed...a man should do likewise.

I don't think preferring a well groomed man is an unreasonable expectation. Men usually have a whole checklist of appearance requirements for women, and expect us to constantly jump through hoops to meet them, including starving ourselves and sometimes even surgery.

Many of those photos look like a mug shot.

I would like to refer you to your own comment from the other post [agnostic.com]

Your comment:
"How would men like women advising them how to improve themselves to be more attractive to women?
'Guys, you need to lose weight, get fit, whiten your teeth, wear stylish clothes, get rid of your beard, get a haircut, trim your nostril hair, shower daily, floss daily, get regular teeth cleanings, stand up straight, iron your shirts, lift weights and improve your grooming.'
Would you like that? I think not."

And yet you just made a suggestion on what men should do to be more attractive. Seems like you're saying it's ok for women to tell men how to improve, but it's not ok for men to tell women how to improve.

@Bendog Pretty much. LOL. I just found it very strange.

@Bendog I'm fine with that. If that happens then it'll give me something to do this weekend.

@joeymf86

You missed my point. I wrote:

How would men like women advising them how to improve themselves to be more attractive to women?

"Guys, you need to lose weight, get fit, whiten your teeth, wear stylish clothes, get rid of your beard, get a haircut, trim your nostril hair, shower daily, floss daily, get regular teeth cleanings, stand up straight, iron your shirts, lift weights and improve your grooming."

Would you like that? I think not.

Yes...a happy person is fun to be with. A grump is mentally taxing.

@Bendog

I lift weights. When you gain muscle, you burn more calories while inactive. You shift your body composition to more muscle and less fat.

@LiterateHiker You just wrote your comment again, except you made some words bold. It still seems like your point was men wouldn't like it if women made suggestions on how to improve a man's attractiveness so men shouldn't make suggestions on how to improve a woman's attractiveness. It just seems a bit hypocritical that you would then have a comment suggesting how a man should improve his attractiveness on this post.

That's great...A woman who wants to make her man happy is always appreciated.