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I want to to make a general statement perhaps a confession. I'm a widower for almost four years I was married to my wife for 44 years and I loved her and grieved for her to a high degree when she passed away.

But amazingly now that I've been alone for a while I have discovered the best sex that I've ever had in my entire life. I mean really the death of passion and lust and desire I can't freaking believe it especially my age and with call due modesty I think I'm performing better than I did when I was first married.

I've done things now in the bedroom there were only fantasies once and that I dreamed of once but now is reality.

Of course maybe it helps that I left my Christian beliefs behind and adopted a new way of thinking because I certainly didn't need the control of the church telling me what was acceptable and what was not acceptable in the bedroom and with relationships with women.

I hope I haven't offended anybody with this statement.

Masondixonline 6 Jan 19
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So liberating I am sure, and never too late!

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I think it's awesome! Gives me hope that there's always something new on the horizon.

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Good for you! How lovely that you can enjoy this time of life with renewed curiosity and joy.

UUNJ Level 8 Jan 20, 2019
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Lol...I hope I can follow you down that road, Brother! Pretty slim pickings...and the clock is ticking! I'm really happy for you!

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Not offended at all. Glad it happened for you.

Deb57 Level 8 Jan 19, 2019
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Congratulations on embracing evolution......even in our personal lives.

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It may have to do with the women our age. No families to plan for or take care of. They had the boring run of the mill sex for 40 years too. No careers to be in the way. A maturing attitude to what their families or friends or church may think if they found out that thing they like doing now. An awareness that life is finite. Anal sex, bondage, spanking, fooling around where you might get caught and threesomes are kinda fun.

Ps. Women our age may also be less inhibited because there are a lot more widows than there are widowers that can still get a hard-on. When we were younger women had their pick of any man they wanted. Now I notice that table turned. That's why I'm a happy widower.

@Anonbene Look at the cruise ships,packed with Widows,looking for a Man,if you are a Widower,lot's of choices there.

@Mike1947

Happy endings come in several ways. I just hope I die like Nelson Rockefeller.

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Not offended. Be happy sweetie xx

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Hooray for both of us. I have the same story. My 72 year old boyfriend and I (75) are enjoying our late years. My late husband wanted me to go on with life and oh, how i am.

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I do not think this is a confession, at least there is no NEED to be guilty. I see it as a return to nature. Well done for all the experimentation involved. You also probably had a good teacher.

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Good for you! We ALL deserve great sex! Especially passionate love-making!

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Not offended. Be happy sweetie xx

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In my confession...

It should have read DEPTH OF PASSION

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Freudian slip

The option choice has an edit whereby one may correct ones errors. I correct my spelling often.

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